39 Tampere, Finland
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My self-summary
We're all a little weird and life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we can join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness called love. That's my scenario (not easy for someone like me, but... I don't care. Nobody said it would be easy...

I like hot latin dances, linguistic research, kids, wine, intellectual conversation, men and city life. (High buildings make you look up, and sometimes that's just what makes a difference.)

I want to look nice in the eyes of someone special. I want to be attractive and attracted.

I think profoundly and analytically, I like to see big pictures and details at the same time. I like to understand my fellow human beings, what they are doing and why, and also myself. I'm quite good in understanding... I have lots of empathy towards everything, I don't judge, because I understand. I'm very sensitive and sensual and practical. I know well, what I'm doing and why. I also know why I'm thinking the way I am. That makes me sometimes a little... bored... with people who are just wondering why everything is the way it is. No one hardly can ever say to me something I haven't heard or thought of. If someone will, I will be very delighted.

I also get bored with people who feel superior to others because they read more books, because they don't watch much tv, because they do more sports or because they deny themselves some forms of pleasure.

I get fascinated by people who are highly intellectual and emotional but not arrogant. Who are sensitive and do what they like, not controlled but enlightened. Who know how to think. I mean really think, not just have opinions and arguments.
What I’m doing with my life
Thinking, studying, teaching, thinking again, talking, listening, thinking and thinking more. Sitting and listening to music. Drinking coffee and watching people pass by. Thinking some more. Discussing. Dancing every moment I have someone to dance with.
I’m really good at
Thinking. Understanding. Being with kids.
The first things people usually notice about me
My pleasant smile :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ingmar Bergman: Laterna Magica, Dmitri Shostakovitsh's biography, Nykysuomen etymologinen sanakirja, Tomasello: Origins of Human Communications, Hodgkinson: The Idle Parent

Music: Soul, ooppera, latino, electro, ambient, Russian rock...

Films e.g. from Sofia Coppola, Roy Anderson or Kaurismäki
The six things I could never do without
My child. City streets. Coffee. Internet. A group I belong. Dancing. Well, never say never...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People's thoughts, people's ideologies, emotions, relationships, communication.

Growing, learning, teaching, living. People's attitudes. What life is about.

My research topic.

What to wear at the next dancing party.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing at a club or hanging at home with my child.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't admit anything. I didn't do it.
You should message me if
you can tell me, how you became the person you are...