Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We're all a little weird and life is a little weird. And when we
find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we can join
up with them and fall in mutual weirdness called love. That's my
scenario (not easy for someone like me, but... I don't care. Nobody
said it would be easy...) I already have one precious and gorgeous
boyfriend so I'm not available for an exclusive relationship. But I
am interested in meeting another brilliant person to make him a
special one for me.
I like hot latin dances, linguistic research, kids, wine,
intellectual conversation, men and city life. (High buildings make
you look up, and sometimes that's just what makes a
I want to look nice in the eyes of someone special. I want to be
attractive and attracted.
I think profoundly and analytically, I like to see big pictures and
details at the same time. I like to understand my fellow human
beings, what they are doing and why, and also myself. I'm quite
good in understanding... I have lots of empathy towards everything,
I don't judge, because I understand. I'm very sensitive and sensual
and practical. I know well, what I'm doing and why. I also know why
I'm thinking the way I am. That makes me sometimes a little...
bored... with people who are just wondering why everything is the
way it is. No one hardly can ever say to me something I haven't
heard or thought of. If someone will, I will be very
I also get bored with people who feel superior to others because
they read more books, because they don't watch much tv, because
they do more sports or because they deny themselves some forms of
I get fascinated by people who are highly intellectual and
emotional but not arrogant. Who are sensitive and do what they
like, not controlled but enlightened. Who know how to think. I mean
really think, not just have opinions and arguments.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Thinking, studying, teaching, thinking again, talking, listening,
thinking and thinking more. Sitting and listening to music.
Drinking coffee and watching people pass by. Thinking some more.
Discussing. Dancing every moment I have someone to dance with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking. Understanding. Being with kids.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Ingmar Bergman: Laterna Magica, Dmitri Shostakovitsh's
biography, Nykysuomen etymologinen sanakirja, Tomasello: Origins of
Human Communications, Hodgkinson: The Idle Parent
Music: Soul, ooppera, latino, electro, ambient, Russian
Films e.g. from Sofia Coppola, Roy Anderson or Kaurismäki
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My child. City streets. Coffee. Internet. A group I belong.
Dancing. Well, never say never...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People's thoughts, people's ideologies, emotions, relationships,
Growing, learning, teaching, living. People's attitudes. What life
My research topic.
What to wear at the next dancing party.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing at a club or hanging at home with my child.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't admit anything. I didn't do it.
You should message me if
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