I'm a voracious reader & I'm into comics, music (not a top 40s kind of guy) & film. Anything from a good romantic comedy to a chilling foreign horror film are all o.k. in my book, as long as the movie doesn't insult my intelligence. I think a good conversation, whether it's with someone on the train regarding their lifelong hatred of the Red Sox, or a heart to heart with my loved one, is worth it's weight in gold. I have somewhat thoughtful opinions on lots of things, but I'd really rather hear what you have to say.
When it comes to dating & relationships I'm not afraid of commitment, but I also like taking things slow at first. I also don't need you to take care of me, nor do I need to be your white knight. I want you to be a big part of my life, but not all of it.
As for what I'm looking for - I'm pretty open minded. I've learned that looks are only a part of a woman's beauty - her smile, the way she talks to you, the lilt of her laughter & her lust for life are all just as important.
I love to laugh & I'm a pretty passionate guy once you get to know me - though I can be a little quiet until I feel comfortable with you & your circle of friends. I have a dirty sense of humor, but your family will be glad you brought me home to dinner.
Whatever else you want to know, just ask.
PS I'm fluffy and I have a bald spot. Working on the former, the later is just part of getting older and learning to have a sense of humor about life