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44 Scottsdale, AZ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 1, 2014
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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FYI Ladies, I am looking for a relationship to lead somewhere good so if you don’t know what you want at this stage in your life please pass me by. If you just got divorced then generally speaking you don’t know what you want out of a relationship-I didn’t, so be realistic. Please send message you know like a written one lol.

Hmmmmm......, I love to travel, but responsibility comes first so raising my two boys takes precedence. One i have sole custody and the other one I have shared custody. Summers vacations always the most flexible(who wants to be here is the summer anyway lol). I am a responsible, loyal, energetic, dependable person, mature, stable, financially secure and very easy going in my life. I am self employed and have been so my whole life starting with my paper route as a kid. I speak French and have lived in France—Tres Bien!. Love to travel to other parts of the world or just take road trip especially to Diego where I have family. Just back from Europe this last summer. I love to cook, fix things, do projects, garden, do activities with friends and of course with my boys--I find these things relaxing for me. I run this household alone and am not decent at everything but things can get cluttered. Oh yea I am really into a nice meal with that bottle wine with that someone special where we can relax and talk over a meal. Like to work out and try to eat healthy unless I am going out to eat and don't worry about it or I would starve lol. I would like to be in a mature relationship with someone who is real and not unrealistic about the realities of life. Like candles and romance is my cut of tea—heck I am an Italian speaking French right :).
What I’m doing with my life
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Busy raising my sons, working of lots of projects and building my Real Estate Business. Things are so much better then they used to be Ya.
I’m really good at
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Cooking, Conversation, Kissing
The first things people usually notice about me
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I always have a positive attitude and a smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Usually spend a lot of time reading on the my smart phone.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Boy
Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Raising my sons and I hope some day YOU :)..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at various adventures with my sonS or just staying in and watching a movie and making a nice meal,
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You may ask me only if you will share too.
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What I expect or am looking for. If the relationship starts to have legs I would expect you to be my partner, equal, confidant & friend. First of all if you are the ambivalent type please pass me by. Well don’t be offended ladies but I am not looking for someone who works so much we can never spend any time together. If you are so busy with work and can’t put in the time and effort necessary to see each other then I am not the guy for you. Don't get me wrong, a job is great, but it will not keep you or me warm at night and give you real companionship :). If you don't have any children it is not a deal killer but I have found that you may not have the coping skills to deal with children. If you are on the other hand an expectational women with children that is a huge plus. If you want to chat or text endlessly without meeting in person then again I am not the guy for you. Again, don't be offended ladies but I would like you to be able to cook or at least cook with me if you can keep up lol. If not I can take up the slack, but not every night :). You must adore children and for that matter MEN LOL. I feel one on one interaction is always best. If you get angry and blame it on your race and you could not control it please definitely pass me by. I would like you to be able to enjoy a glass of wine with me at dinner or a beer by the pool or football game etc. I did mention I lived in France :). You know it is legal in this country lol. Not interested if you are a drama queen or a drug user, I am setting am example here now! Not Toooo shy would be a plus too, this is not the 8th grade dance. So don't be scared of a kiss lol. I would like a lady who takes care of herself, works out, not "overweight" and is conscious of how she looks and what she puts in her body. Would not mind going on hikes with you too so we both can have enjoyable company and get a nice workout together. A good sense of reality is a plus too. I am not perfect and don't expect you to be either.

So that, is the truth take it or leave it—at least I did not put up a false front and lie just to try and get in your pants. So if anything I have said above has offended I am sorry and I wish you luck in your search and journey of life and love.