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gowened

24 / F / gay / Single

Seattle, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Inquisitive, Creative, and Wry.

My Self-Summary

Like Kleenex, I'm soft, yet strong. Sarcastic, yet sincere. Idealistic, in a skeptical sort of way. I'm interested in literature, politics, GLBT and feminist history, art, music, and shiny things. Will you be my friend?

What I’m doing with my life

Nerding it up. Gaying it up. Asking myself, "to grad school, or not to grad school?" Making my way in Seattle, making friends, possibly more than friends?, playing the guitar badly, getting involved in the community, and generally loving the twentysomething life.

I’m really good at

Back rubs, baking delicious apple crisps, teasing out intricate layers of subtext in classic literature, remembering the lyrics to forgettable songs, being a friend.

The first things people usually notice about me

My pleasantly furrowed brow and slightly confused expression.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: House of Leaves, Blankets, Fingersmith, Maurice, Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell

Movies: The Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Finding Nemo

Music: Death Cab for Cutie, The Decemberists, The Postal Service

Food: Strawberries, Key Lime Pie

The six things I could never do without

Books, music, friendship, shampoo, hope, laughter.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Deep stuff.

On a typical Friday night I am

Wondering where all the Seattle lesbians are.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I don't know... I'm a sucker for eighties power ballads? Wait, that's not private, that's just embarrassing.

You should message me if

You are an interesting, and interested, queer lady type. I love you non-queer, non-lady types too, but that's just not what I'm looking for right now.