Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A constant work in progress but not in the Type A must dominate the
world sort of way. My life has been an interesting adventure thus
far and I feel like I am just getting warmed up. Not that I was
ever a real "wild child" but more than ever I feel myself enjoying
settling down into a grounded life. Really enjoying spending time
in my apartment which I find comfortable, soothing and a good
reflection of the care I take in creating the environment where I
live. Also planning for the future but working on shifting my
habits to support a long healthy life. Cooking more, getting back
into running having completed a half marathon and training for my
first full marathon in over 10 years. Have a traditional 9 to 5
working with great people and also starting to plant the seeds to
build over time a way to replace my income and more working for
myself. Looking to find (forgive the cliche) my best friend to
share the rest of this Magical Carpet Ride with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Some of this is spelled out in the summary section above. Right now
I am more focused than I have ever been on the traditional elements
of a middle-aged adult such as stability, finding a partner,
creating a comfortable home and thinking about retirement. That
said, I make an effort to maintain balance so I make time for
self-reflection to keep from ending up on the hamster wheel I have
happily avoided up until now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being calm and confident in the face of chaos. Keeping a positive
outlook. Being on time and reliable to keep my word. Continuing to
show up and accept the next challenge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly I don't know. As often as possible I hope it's my
light-hearted, sometimes sarcastic sense of humor. I get
compliments on my eyes so maybe that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - The Alchemist, Wicked
Movies - Bottle Rocket, Goodwill Hunting
Music - Classic Rock, Early Rap
Food - Spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
At the end of 2012, I had to say goodbye to my best friend and
canine companion of the last 14 plus years. Aside from family,
nothing could have been harder for me to imagine life without. I
miss him but it reminds me that there is nothing truly that I could
never do without. I prefer to notice what I am grateful for now and
to remember with honor everything else.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Creative ways to make mundane things more fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This could trigger some red flags but I just this month (October
2013) joined a group that plays Dungeons and Dragons every other
Friday night. I never really played as a kid and must say that I
absolutely love it. For me it is a like joining an improv group
where I get to creatively develop myself as an actor and at the
same time I love the element of trying to advance that character
towards goals. It is also fascinating having a safe place to work
on communicating with the other members of the team who often have
different goals. On the opposite Fridays I am either winding down
from a long week or going to dinner with a friend or date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty open book but you have to ask. Time and place for
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 29–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
You should message me if
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You are at a stage in your life where you are perfectly happy being
single with great friends and family and now would like someone
special to share that with.
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