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gpinsky1313

42 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A constant work in progress but not in the Type A must dominate the world sort of way. My life has been an interesting adventure thus far and I feel like I am just getting warmed up. Not that I was ever a real "wild child" but more than ever I feel myself enjoying settling down into a grounded life. Really enjoying spending time in my apartment which I find comfortable, soothing and a good reflection of the care I take in creating the environment where I live. Also planning for the future but working on shifting my habits to support a long healthy life. Cooking more, getting back into running having completed a half marathon and training for my first full marathon in over 10 years. Have a traditional 9 to 5 working with great people and also starting to plant the seeds to build over time a way to replace my income and more working for myself. Looking to find (forgive the cliche) my best friend to share the rest of this Magical Carpet Ride with.
What I’m doing with my life
Some of this is spelled out in the summary section above. Right now I am more focused than I have ever been on the traditional elements of a middle-aged adult such as stability, finding a partner, creating a comfortable home and thinking about retirement. That said, I make an effort to maintain balance so I make time for self-reflection to keep from ending up on the hamster wheel I have happily avoided up until now.
I’m really good at
Being calm and confident in the face of chaos. Keeping a positive outlook. Being on time and reliable to keep my word. Continuing to show up and accept the next challenge.
The first things people usually notice about me
Honestly I don't know. As often as possible I hope it's my light-hearted, sometimes sarcastic sense of humor. I get compliments on my eyes so maybe that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - The Alchemist, Wicked
Movies - Bottle Rocket, Goodwill Hunting
Music - Classic Rock, Early Rap
Food - Spicy
The six things I could never do without
At the end of 2012, I had to say goodbye to my best friend and canine companion of the last 14 plus years. Aside from family, nothing could have been harder for me to imagine life without. I miss him but it reminds me that there is nothing truly that I could never do without. I prefer to notice what I am grateful for now and to remember with honor everything else.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Creative ways to make mundane things more fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
This could trigger some red flags but I just this month (October 2013) joined a group that plays Dungeons and Dragons every other Friday night. I never really played as a kid and must say that I absolutely love it. For me it is a like joining an improv group where I get to creatively develop myself as an actor and at the same time I love the element of trying to advance that character towards goals. It is also fascinating having a safe place to work on communicating with the other members of the team who often have different goals. On the opposite Fridays I am either winding down from a long week or going to dinner with a friend or date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a pretty open book but you have to ask. Time and place for everything.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are at a stage in your life where you are perfectly happy being single with great friends and family and now would like someone special to share that with.