Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm queer as a three dollar bill and genderqueer/trans. I care
about living joyfully, liberation, challenging myself, playfulness,
and processing. Just kidding about that last thing. Not really.
Family is important to me, both my family of origin and my queer
family. I'm a twin and a gemini -- I have a hard time making up my
mind sometimes, but when I finally figure it out, I trust my
I grew up north of Seattle, in the country. Though I'm settled in
the city, I really value my rural roots. I work a desk job and
clear brush at my sister's on weekends when I can. I think making
things with your hands is really attractive.
I'm at a really great point in my life where I have strong
friendships and really enjoy what I do with my time, and I'm
looking for a person to enjoy my life with.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in the non-profit industrial complex and put a lot of care
into my day job running a social justice focused AmeriCorps
I like getting outdoors and moving my body, as well as doing
seasonally appropriate activities (think country fairs and pumpkin
picking). In the city, I love going on walks in different
neighborhoods -- and also long walks on the beach at sunset. I
enjoy experiencing art -live theater, feminist performance art,
classical music, star trek in the park, RuPaul's Drag Race, visual
art, outdoor art installations, all of it. When I have time, I love
to sew and bake. I have a long history of playing the piano, and
working on getting one at my house.
I adore my little mutt dog and my giant fluffy kitty. I'm a great
fantasy dog consultant -- I can talk to you for hours about what
kind of dog you should get. I'm a big fan of kids, and get to see
my nieces and nephews often. Nurturing living things is my jam!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
staying up too late
The first things people usually notice about me
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My arm tattoo, or probably my gender.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Nobody Passes, Whipping Girl by Julia Serano, Willa Cather,
everything Robin McKinley ever wrote, young adult fiction in
general, Philip Pullman, Octavia Butler.
Recent books: I'm reading A Plague of Doves by Louise Erdrich, and
it's really good!
The West Wing, Downton Abbey, Star Trek: TNG, Buffy the Vampire
Slayer, Six Feet Under, Parks and Rec, Sherlock
my friends' bands
classical music (I studied music for a long time)
country music I can dance to
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the prison industrial complex supports and maintains structural
racism. Also, shoes. omg shoes!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making dinner with friends, getting ready to go camping, drinking
wine and watching Naked and Afraid, taking my dog on long walks,
and sometimes going two stepping at the Cuff! Which I looove.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love it when people don't wear deodorant.
You should message me if
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You have your shit reasonably together, and are funny and generous.
You think I'm cute and sexy, and are similarly looking for
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