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30 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–40
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My Details

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Yesterday – 4:16pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I've been firmly rooted in NYC for nearly 7 years- so while I'm technically a transplant I feel very at home here and have no plans on leaving any time soon. After all this time in the city I still feel pretty mellow, calm and altogether nice, although I do have the desire to physically push down every single person who stops and answers their phone in the middle of the subway steps...

I'm an independent lady who appreciates a goofy sense of humor as much as an intellectual conversation. As a creative and ambitious person, I love meeting others who are driven by passion and curiosity.

Also, I'm a proud feminist and lean pretty far left- I'm pretty diplomatic and get along with most people, but any hardcore right-wingers should probably just leave now...
What I’m doing with my life
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I curate exhibitions and co-run an artspace in Brooklyn and work at a nonprofit organization in the city. Then there are always outside/freelance projects, but I won't bore the internet with those until they happen and need press, ha...I work hard and often but am happy to say that I'm learning how to balance my time better and enjoy the hell out of living in NYC.

I enjoy checking out art galleries/museums in the cities and seeing live music as often as possible. As someone who grew up on the beach I like to be outdoors and am always looking for ways to do that in and outside of the city. I practice yoga regularly (or semi-regularly, I try) and like hiking, spending time on the water, traveling, practicing new recipes, and happy hour- ok, regular drinking hour is good too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making lists (to-do, grocery, you name it...)
Finding my way around new places
Memorization (short term anyway)
Karaoke (not really but god I love it)
Talking to strangers
Making a mean spinach-artichoke dip
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair is pretty curly & can be BIG in the summer. I'm not super tall but have been have been told that I have nice legs (ick that feels weird to write but I'm going to push through it and keep writing). I give a good hand shake and am pretty sweet at heart but also sarcastic a lot of the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I usually have one or two going at the same time so this is tricky but I always like David Sedaris, Jeffrey Eugenides, Vladimir Nabakov, Junot Diaz, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Phillip K. Dick.
And Harry Potter of course...

TV: The Daily Show, Colbert Report, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Arrested Development, Parks & Rec. I don't like reality TV but I have to admit I'm a total sucker for some of those kids on The Voice.

Music: Blues, 90's grunge & lady rockers will always have a special place in my heart but I like a lot of different stuff, not so much pop on the top 40 these days though.

Food: Good Mexican food is my happy place, but I like almost everything. Especially blueberry pancakes, sushi, and oysters with a blood mary.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My passport
Good beer
Those special people in my life
Toothbrush (because everything is better with clean teeth)

I know that's six, but I have to add cheese...cheese is really really important
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next trip. New artists/projects and how to fund them. What to name my future cat which I plan on getting soon- and dog although that will be a while since I live the typical NY over-worked/underpaid life in a shoebox apartment kind of life. And probably what's for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably checking out an art opening, then hitting up a low-key bar for dinner & more than one drink with friends. Or in my apartment with a bottle of wine and a movie, depends on how little sleep I've had that week...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not only do talk to my cats, I also sing to them. I feel this does not make me a crazy cat lady (yet) because I would be singing anyway, it's just more fun to have them around to listen.
You should message me if
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If anything above made you smile and you want to

If you know how to write a real message- sorry, I don't respond to just hi/hey beautiful/whazzup homegirl or anything X-rated. I won't respond to less than 2 real written sentences, sorry...

If you are getting tired of this website

Or you want to support art in Brooklyn!!!