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37 / M / Straight / Married
Fort Wayne, IN
- Last Online
- Mar 3
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Type
- Has a kid
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
I have recently (within three months) started going to the gym to lift weights. I am enjoying this much more than I thought I would. There's something very gratifying about increasing my He-Man strength. My goal is to turn that "A little extra" over there on the right into "Average" or maybe (hopefully!) even "Athletic" at some point. That said I know all too well how frakking difficult adopting a healthier lifestyle is.
I am trying to raise my two girls with high self esteem, a healthy body awareness and intellectual and artistic achievements.
Other than music... I cook! That's probably one of my top hobbies. I don't do it as much as I used to due to working two jobs but I still enjoy it very much. Some specialties of mine include Ragu alla Bolognese (seriously good, dude) and a wonderful Alabama style bbq chicken. I am pretty much hopeless when it comes to baking however. I have a large collection of Cook's Illustrated and Cook's Country magazines that I try recipes out of.
I'm also a good conversationalist and enjoy a good talk about most any subject. I appreciate open, friendly dialogue.
I am a great dad to my two girls. I love them and they know it.
I also give a great massage.
Movies: Anything that's actually intelligent.
Music: The National, Arcade Fire, The Black Keys, Patty Griffin, Wilco, Ben Folds, Radiohead, Eric Whitacre, Arvo Part, John Cage, Phillip Glass, Steve Reich, Terry Riley, Muddy Waters, Buddy Guy, Bach, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Prokovief, Rachmaninoff... there's really too much to list in any genre.
1. Music (performing and listening)
2. Technology (laptop and smartphone!)
3. My piano.
4. My family.
5. My dog.
6. Good food.
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 24–41
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
You might like to flirt a bit.
Just to say "hey!"
You'd like someone to give you some great conversation.
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