Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'd like to mention that because I sometimes access the site
through my iPhone it apparently can make it look like I'm online
all the time which isn't the case.
Thanks for having a look at my profile. I’m an unassuming and open
kind of guy looking to share a mutually satisfying relationship
with an equally unpretentious kind of woman.
I'm not a big fan of ego so it's something I want to avoid at all
costs when it comes to how I live my life. Because of that I'm a
bit hesitant when it comes to describing myself but since
describing yourself is what a profile's all about, I'll try to do
so as best I can so you can have some sense of the man in the
I’m 59 and I appreciate it when I'm told I don’t look my age. I’m
healthy and fairly fit and I'm grateful for both. Investing in a
lifestyle that combines a healthy plant-based diet along with
physical activity (in my case running) has gone a long way towards
allowing me to look and feel younger than what the calendar says.
Emotional health and a spiritual nature combine with these as I
have an interest in improving myself to be a better human
I’m taken by what nature has to offer. I love animals and the love
they offer in return. Things I enjoy include: great music and any
opportunity to see and hear my favorite artists and bands in
concert; spending time outside whether going for a walk or hike or
doing yard chores; going for a drive and exploring some place new;
and like many people, going to the beach, for me especially if it’s
one on the Cape and a bit more secluded; baking; going out to
dinner; staying in and making dinner; stimulating and maybe thought
I just happen to think that these things would be made all the
better when shared with the company of an uncommon woman.
I’m looking for a woman who distinguishes herself. You're modest
and kind. You're naturally attractive and show your appreciation
for it by continuing to take care of yourself. How much you earn or
where you went to school really isn’t that important to me. I’m
much more interested in what you’ve learned along the way than what
You have an apparent spiritual side to you and probably have the
golden rule as a primary guide, understanding like me that we what
we give, we get in return. You’re known for your kindness and even
if someone doesn’t know you they sense it from your eyes.
In the likelihood that you have children, you’re known as a special
mom who always has an abundance of love and attention for her kids
no matter what their age. If by chance you’re like me with it just
not being written for you to have kids, you none the less
appreciate them for what they have to offer and love especially the
ones that touch you along the way. In either case your heart is big
enough to love and appreciate animals too. Maybe you have one or
more that share their lives and love with you.
Any relationship is bound to have disagreements. But a genuine
relationship with love and connection between two people will have
a level of respect that not only allows the conflict to be resolved
but for the bond to grow deeper.
Our lives are enhanced when they’re shared with someone we really
connect with. There’s nothing better when that connection yields an
uncommon love. Attention, appreciation and affection come
Add a touch of romance and we might have life’s greatest
This website's kind of profile does well at creating interest and
suggesting compatibility but chemistry is unpredictable. I’m sure
you’d agree that both are essential for a relationship to
There’s a lot more to know about me along with all the details that
come with it, so just ask if anything so far has piqued your
interest. Then, maybe we can meet and see if there's a spark that
would enhance any mutual interest.
(My pictures are from 2014, 2013 and 2012 )
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to be kind. I try to be aware. I try to learn. I try to
I co-own a successful small business that's been around for a
while. I'm trying to spend a few less hours there in order to
appreciate and accomplish a few other things outside of work.
Kind of related to the aforementioned enjoying beaches, Cape Cod
has always had a place in my heart.
A couple years ago, I was most fortunate to acquire a second home
on the outer Cape. So now I also try to make time in order to go
there and enjoy it's serenity and all of Nature in the surrounding
area. I'd very much look forward to sharing this with a unique
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I really like to bake (cookies, pies, cakes and cinnamon buns,
quiches and pizza. I do so a little differently than most and am
happy with the compliments I receive. In case this interests you, I
do like to share!
The first things people usually notice about me
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People seem to notice that I try to be kind and that I'm
I don't believe in and I'm not about ego but it does make me happy
to hear when I'm told that I don't look my age and that I keep
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is my other food. I enjoy most progressive forms of music and
singer/songwriters. Among my favorite artists are the band James,
Hope Sandoval and the Warm Inventions, Mazzy Star, Crosby, Stills,
Nash and Young (collectively and individually), Lissie, Neko Case,
Chrissie Hynde (of the Pretenders), the Beatles (particularly
George Harrison), the Doors, Julee Cruise, A Girl Called Eddie,
early Elton John, K.D.Lang, all eras of Fleetwood Mac, Dire
Straits, Keren Ann and the list goes on....
Don't watch much in the case of current shows but try not to miss
Real Time with Bill Maher. Enjoy watching old shows like the
original Bob Newhart Show, Taxi, The Twilight Zone, Bosom Buddies,
and my all time favorite show, Kung Fu.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Delicious, healthy food.
Room for one more....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The discord and conflicts in the world.
It seems we have so much. Hard to believe that very many people
outside of those who like power and who like to control others
enjoy such a world.
If we can understand the underlying causes for this demeanor and
the resulting environment could we find some ways to dissipate the
hostility and become more peaceful?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At this time, usually relaxing at home after a work week.
However.... If I'm up on the Cape I could be at the seashore, the
lighthouse, in Provincetown, or on my deck : )
You should message me if
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If anything you've read strikes a chord and it seems we share some
core values along with other interests.
I'm not at all opposed to meeting someone who distinguishes herself
and maybe lives up to a couple hours away.
I feel if we understand the kind of person we're hoping to meet is
less commonly found, the more we may need to understand that they
may not be the most conveniently located. I know the kind of woman
I'm looking for is fewer and farther between. Therefore she may not
live around the corner.
I want to see someone who really tickles my fancy even if her
living farther away meant I wouldn't be able to see her as much as
I'd otherwise like. I couldn't settle for someone who lived nearby
but I felt wasn't all that I hope to find in a woman.
Our hearts tell us that we want to be able to see someone without
obstacles. They also tell us who's best suited for us.
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