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grasshopper845

58 M Montgomery, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Like I've seen in many other profiles, I want to mention that because I sometimes access the site through my iPhone it can look like I'm online all the time

Thanks for choosing to have a look at my profile. I’m an unassuming and open kind of guy looking to share a mutually satisfying relationship with an equally unpretentious kind of woman.
I'm not a big fan of ego so it's something I want to avoid at all costs when it comes to how I live my life. Because of that I'm a bit hesitant when it comes to describing myself but since describing yourself is what a profile's all about, I'll try to do so as best I can so you can have some sense of the man in the picture.
I’m 58 but am often told I don’t look my age. I’m healthy and fairly fit and I'm grateful for both. Investing in a lifestyle that combines a healthy plant-based diet along with physical activity (in my case running) has gone a long way towards allowing me to look and feel younger than what the calendar says. Emotional health and a spiritual nature combine with these as I have an interest in improving myself to be a better human being.
I’m taken by what nature has to offer. I love animals and the love they offer in return. Things I enjoy include: great music and any opportunity to see and hear my favorite artists and bands in concert; spending time outside whether going for a walk or hike or doing yard chores; going for a drive and exploring some place new; and like many people, going to the beach, for me especially if it’s one on the Cape and a bit more secluded; baking; going out to dinner; staying in and making dinner; stimulating and maybe thought provoking conversation.
I just happen to think that these things would be made all the better when shared with the company of an uncommon woman.

I’m looking for a woman who distinguishes herself. You're modest and kind. You're naturally attractive and show your appreciation for it by continuing to take care of yourself. How much you earn or where you went to school really isn’t that important to me. I’m much more interested in what you’ve learned along the way than what you’ve acquired.
You have an apparent spiritual side to you and probably have the golden rule as a primary guide, understanding like me that we what we give, we get in return. You’re known for your kindness and even if someone doesn’t know you they sense it from your eyes.
In the likelihood that you have children, you’re known as a special mom who always has an abundance of love and attention for her kids no matter what their age. If by chance you’re like me with it just not being written for you to have kids, you none the less appreciate them for what they have to offer and love especially the ones that touch you along the way. In either case your heart is big enough to love and appreciate animals too. Maybe you have one or more that share their lives and love with you.

Any relationship is bound to have disagreements. But a genuine relationship with love and connection between two people will have a level of respect that not only allows the conflict to be resolved but for the bond to grow deeper.

Our lives are enhanced when they’re shared with someone we really connect with. There’s nothing better when that connection yields an uncommon love. Attention, appreciation and affection come naturally.
Add a touch of romance and we might have life’s greatest pleasure.

This website's kind of profile does well at creating interest and suggesting compatibility but chemistry is unpredictable. I’m sure you’d agree that both are essential for a relationship to thrive.
There’s a lot more to know about me along with all the details that come with it, so just ask if anything so far has piqued your interest. Then, maybe we can meet and see if there's a spark that would enhance any mutual interest.

(My pictures are from 2014, 2013 and 2012 )
What I’m doing with my life
I try to be kind. I try to be aware. I try to learn. I try to grow.
I co-own a successful small business that's been around for a while. I'm trying to spend a few less hours there in order to appreciate and accomplish a few other things outside of work.

Kind of related to the aforementioned enjoying beaches, Cape Cod has always had a place in my heart.
A couple years ago, I was most fortunate to acquire a second home on the outer Cape. So now I also try to make time in order to go there and enjoy it's serenity and all of Nature in the surrounding area. I'd very much look forward to sharing this with a unique woman.
I’m really good at
I really like to bake (cookies, pies, cakes and cinnamon buns, quiches and pizza. I do so a little differently than most and am happy with the compliments I receive. In case this interests you, I do like to share!
The first things people usually notice about me
People seem to notice that I try to be kind and that I'm caring.
I don't believe in and I'm not about ego but it does make me happy to hear when I'm told that I don't look my age and that I keep myself fit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music is my other food. I enjoy most progressive forms of music and singer/songwriters. Among my favorite artists are the band James, Hope Sandoval and the Warm Inventions, Mazzy Star, Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young (collectively and individually), Lissie, Neko Case, Chrissie Hynde (of the Pretenders), the Beatles (particularly George Harrison), the Doors, Julee Cruise, A Girl Called Eddie, early Elton John, K.D.Lang, all eras of Fleetwood Mac, Dire Straits, Keren Ann and the list goes on....
Don't watch much in the case of current shows but try not to miss Real Time with Bill Maher. Enjoy watching old shows like the original Bob Newhart Show, Taxi, The Twilight Zone, Bosom Buddies, and my all time favorite show, Kung Fu.
The six things I could never do without
My animals.
My friends.
Music.
Delicious, healthy food.
Peace.
Room for one more....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The discord and conflicts in the world.
It seems we have so much. Hard to believe that very many people outside of those who like power and who like to control others enjoy such a world.
If we can understand the underlying causes for this demeanor and the resulting environment could we find some ways to dissipate the hostility and become more peaceful?
On a typical Friday night I am
At this time, usually relaxing at home after a work week.
However.... If I'm up on the Cape I could be at the seashore, the lighthouse, in Provincetown, or on my deck : )
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 46–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If anything you've read strikes a chord and it seems we share some core values along with other interests.
I'm not at all opposed to meeting someone who distinguishes herself and maybe lives up to a couple hours away.
I feel if we understand the kind of person we're hoping to meet is less commonly found, the more we may need to understand that they may not be the most conveniently located. I know the kind of woman I'm looking for is fewer and farther between. Therefore she may not live around the corner.
I want to see someone who really tickles my fancy even if her living farther away meant I wouldn't be able to see her as much as I'd otherwise like. I couldn't settle for someone who lived nearby but I felt wasn't all that I hope to find in a woman.

Our hearts tell us that we want to be able to see someone without obstacles. They also tell us who's best suited for us.