I think outside of the box but keep a care for what is going on inside. Prioritize a sense of humor and to "keep it real". Time is precious. I have been working in the healing arts and teach Compassionate Communication (a consciousness and skill set to create more satisfying communication),volunteer with refugees, mentor cancer survivors on their journeys and edit a newsletter.
For enjoyment: art, music, conversation, indie and documentary films, planetariums, travels, hiking, fabulous healthy food, reading, (lust for) learning, meditation, being a museum docent, the symphony, organic gardening. Want to try more outdoor sports and am delightedly learning more about science.
At one time I was a sophisticated New York stockbroker (so what - family business) but eventually reconnected with my passion for wholeness and health. It is still a quest and I am insatiably curious about almost everything. We didn't say "shut up" in my house growing up but every darn time I asked "why" I got that "there you go again" look.
Still sophisticated and seeking but playful, warm and thoughtful in the face of the great mystery of life. I am looking to create a mutually respectful partnership with someone who would value the same. Then comes the fun...