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gravcrash
46 / M / straight / Single
Union, Missouri
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 8" (1.72m).
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Looking For
- Long-term dating
- Smokes
- Yes
- Drinks
- Not at all
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Agnosticism but not too serious about it
- Sign
- Pisces but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Graduated from two-year college
- Job
- Computer / Hardware / Software
- Income
- $30,000–$40,000
- Kids
- Has 1 child
- Pets
- Likes dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am Reserved, content, and cuddly.
My Self-Summary
I realize many of you won't read any further and that's cool but I feel it's necessary to get it out there. No more skeletons allowed in my closet if I wish to remain sober.
So, it's all about truth for me and hopefully truth from a potential partner/mate or however you would like to define it. Lets see... I can be a little stubborn at times and I'll be the first to admit that I'm not spontaneous dammit! I like a plan, so sue me < insert smiley face >.
If you're still reading, on to the good stuff! I've been working for the same company for 20 years next February. I'm a computer/hardware technician working in the banking industry. I own my own home, well... the mortgage company does but you know what I mean.
I have one daughter who is a sophomore in college. She loves me despite my past and she is the love of my life.
I was originally going to wait for the one year mark of being sober to do the whole internet dating thing. I didn't want any additional variables to potentially screw up the path that I'm on. But I feel confident and in charge of my life for the first time in years and dare I say it? Happy.
The one missing piece is a woman to share my life with. I don't know what that means for the future exactly. Friendship, casual dating, serious dating, marriage, sex buddies? I really don't know.
So here I am, jumping into the great unknown! To those of you who show interest I shall try my best to answer any question you may have about me honestly.
Thanks for reading.
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
I have a large vocabulary from reading. Not so much books anymore but mainly through articles on the internet and various message boards.
The first things people usually notice about me
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: Stephen King - The Stand, It, The Dead Zone, and almost all of his short stories.
Tom Clancy - The Hunt for Red October, Red Storm Rising, Debt of Honor.
Movies: Silence of the Lambs, Aliens, American History X, V for Vendetta, Glory, Airplane!, Young Fankenstein, Terms of Endearment - that is one movie that always makes me cry...but only when no one is looking.
Music: I'm not a huge audiophile, I'm mostly a talk radio guy such as NPR.
I do like Classic Rock if I'm in the mood. ( I just got burned out badly from it in the 70's ). The Doors, Jimi, Stones, Zeppelin, Pink Floyd.
Nowadays I like a lot of Alternative rock but I can listen to country or contemporary without cringing. What I'm saying is, is that music in no way is a deal breaker for me.
Food: Pretty much anything but I'm really not into Seafood much, but I'll eat it. Also just say no to potato salad. Blech.
Steak: Medium rare baby! If you like your steak well done....hmm, that could be a deal breaker. Not really but I may make fun of you.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Sorry, I know that sounds boring but at this moment in time it suits me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
You should message me if
I should say that I'm picky about what I like in a woman, appearance wise. Even though I shouldn't be, I can't help it. ( I've waited this long..)
I do prefer slender women around 5'4"- 5'-6" and around 110-125lbs. Hair color isn't really important, nor is eye color. I know what I'm attracted to but it's hard to quantify.
At the risk of sounding like a perv, I'm a backside/leg man. Breasts are always nice as well but are secondary.
Age... I'm flexible on that. Probably between 40-48 give or take a year or two on either side.
That's about it! Now that I've scared all women in a 100 mile radius away, let the fun begin!
Thanks,
Gravcrash