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29 / F / Bisexual / Single

Oakland, California

Her Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
The past six months have been tremendous! I started a catering company and it's amazing to have a career I'm passionate about. I also enjoy writing, hiking, wild places, travel (I know, just like everyone else on this site!), and geeking out about craft beer. I have a very sardonic sense of humor, am fiercely loyal, stubborn, and value honesty above courtesy. I have a lot in common with my rottweiler, although he's a terrible cook.

I had a radio drama show for many years and I miss it! Don't get me wrong, I adore my job... working out of a community kitchen, selling at pop-up markets, and being part of Oakland's vibrant food scene. It fills a similar creative and social niche, but I wish I had more time for sound design. I'm definitely an audio person. The sound of the world intrigues me!

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"The universe wants to play, " - Hakim Bey

"It's a big beautiful world, and I want it all," - Anthony Bourdain

"Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon." - Almost certainly not the Dalai Lama, but solid advice none-the-less

"Don't ever let 'em make you feel like saying what you want is unbecoming. If you were supposed to watch you're mouth all the time I doubt your eyes would be above it." - The Drive By Truckers (PS: the song this line is pulled from is called Gravity is Gone)
What I’m doing with my life
In addition to catering, I'm also the business manager for my dad's shop. He sells surf, skate and snowboards; I do all the boring paperwork.

In my limited free time I go hiking with my dog, explore Oakland, and try to support the many artistic endeavors of my friends. I love roadtrips, even though I don't drive. I bribe my friends with gas money to go on little adventures with me.
I’m really good at
Cooking, telling stories, managing chaos, getting shit done.
The first things people usually notice about me
I laugh easily and use the word "fuckin" as a hesitation device.

Actually, those are the the things I WISH people noticed first. In reality, it's probably my boobs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music - I had a blues show on KZSC for years. I also listen to a lot of classic rock and old school punk. Some favorites are: R.L. Burnside, Stevie Ray Vaughan, The Clash, Bob Dylan, Modest Mouse, Allman Brothers, Drive-By Truckers, Iggy Pop, Warren Zevon, Flogging Molly, Rolling Stones, Otis Redding and Patti Smith

Movies - I love anything with Zombies and generally hate chick flicks. Favorites include: Shaun of the Dead, Run Lola Run, Easy Rider, Pan's Labyrinth, The Harder They Come, Fear and Loathing in Las Vagas, Arsenic and Old Lace, O Brother Where Art Thou, Monty Python, anything with Rifftrax

Shows - Firefly, Game of Thrones, Futurama, Home Movies, Dr. Who, Sherlock, No Reservations, Iron Chef, Chopped, 30 Rock, Dexter, Veronica Mars, Arrested Development,

Books - The Song of Ice and Fire Series, The Stand, Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy, 2001, Lady Sings the Blues by Billie Holiday, Temporary Autonomous Zones by Hakim Bey, and basically any by Hunter S Thompson, Bukowski or Ray Bradbury. I've read way too much Stephen King and the complete works of Shakespeare cover to cover. Love the comedies, hate the sonnets.

Food is my passion! Good food is like good sex, but far less complicated!
The six things I could never do without
1. My dog
2. Good friends
3. Good food
4. My mind
5. Adventure/novel expereinces
6. Some sort of creative outlet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Travel, food, art, politics, what to do when zombies attack...
On a typical Friday night I am
Dickin' around on facebook, grabbing a drink at Beer Revolution, or off having some random adventure (think Tarantino meets A Prairie Home Companion).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I spent a good chunk of my childhood without electricity.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you want to. What've you got to lose?

That being said, there are obviously certain things that I'm looking for in a partner so here it is!

I'm looking for someone who's:
- Fairly emotionally stable & sane
- Good with my dog (he's big and protective, so it's logistically difficult to date someone who's scared of dogs)
- Intelligent
- Honest
- Good at making me laugh
- Relatively independent
- Adventurous
- Coherent (I get a ton of messages like, "hey hawty how ru wanna met?" Not gunna lie. I only respond to those if I'm bored).

Additional notes:
- Talent and creativity are huge turn-ons
- I have a weakness for musicians (especially bass players)
- I think good whiskey is sexy
- I'm pretty nocturnal. Huge points if you are, too.
- Please resist the urge to message me a picture of your penis. If I have a burning desire to see it at any point, I promise to let you know.
- I'm not a girly girl. I'm super low maintenance. I'm looking for someone who's comfortable with that. Sometimes men find this intimidating, and women think it's weird.