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gravitybrane

27 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
*under construction*

been living in the city for 3 years and have trouble imagining myself anywhere else. it's the mix of energy, challenge, diversity, and possibility that keeps me here.

i’m feeling happier, less anxious, and more content as i'm growing up, so i’m taking that as a sign that i’m heading in the right general direction. enjoying exploring my passions: singing / writing music (i have a killer range of 3.5 octaves), working out, programming (work), and sketching / painting occasionally. i used to go hunting and camping all the time as a kid, and i really want to find a group of friends to head to the mountains with. one goal is to spend more time outdoors this summer - skating and biking along the west side, jogging or throwing a ball in the park, lounging and reading on a pier.

fascinated by how the world works, but more so how we all navigate it. i’m pretty introspective and love hearing about other people’s experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
* software engineer by day
* art projects and writing music - for me expression is a means to understanding myself and the world better
* trying to maintain gym rat status
* cultivating close friendships
* learning. implementing
I’m really good at
abstraction
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: Steven Pinker's The Blank Slate has turned me from a timid romantic into a physicalist

movies: Lost Highway

music lately: massive attack, kendrick lamar, fiona apple, no doubt, the weeknd, amanda palmer, garbage, erykah badu, nine inch nails, pink floyd, recent madonna most mornings at the gym.

tv: strangers with candy ...!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how i got here and where i'm going. how to enjoy the process more.
On a typical Friday night I am
working on an art project, dinner / drinks with friends, working late, reading. after busy weeks, friday nights are usually reserved for down time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i don't have all my shit figured out
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you're physically fit, nurturing, and can laugh at yourself. and are wicked cool (you know who you are)