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grax_the_tyrant

27 / M / straight / Single

Oxford, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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Your Notes

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I am charming, odd, and approachable.

My Self-Summary

Wanna cut the reading crap? Take the Grax MatchMe Test!

A summary of me eh? Well I'm a friendly, easy going kinda guy. I like chatting to people, I work out fairly regularly, I have a job as a computer programmer. I like going out to pubs to chat and nightclubs to dance (especially to feel the bass pulse through my body).

And... and...

Ohhh I have to say it...

I'm a bit of a geek at heart. I like the Internet, reading comics and books, I have a site with video entries and yes, sometimes I DO get a kick out of computer programming.

There, I said it.

I feel better for getting that off my chest.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm doing my God Damn job God Dammit!

But my main goal in life is to have fun and experience as many things as possible. I'm always willing to try things out at least once, otherwise how will I know if I like it or not?

After all, isn't that the meaning of life?

Well the meaning of life has to be more interesting than just procreation.

I’m really good at

Listening to other. It's easy to do so, I like the buzz of chatting to others and hearing other peoples opinion on stuff.

Dancing, well sort of. I'm always learning to dance salsa and I can dance ceroc pretty good too. But really, sometimes it's just fun to dance like an idiot in the mosh pit.

Letting people be themselves. People are generally nicer when they're feeling relaxed and open about things.

People have said I can cook some tasty dish, but I feel I should broaden my horizons a bit further than the 3 dishes I do.

The first things people usually notice about me

My face. Unless they're perverts and they're looking at my trouser area.

But usually it's my face that people look at when they first meet me. Especially if I'm wearing coloured contacts or paint my face with tattoo ink.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like any genre of music that sounds good to me (after all there are always exceptions to any music genre's that make you think "Ooh, I quite like that"). But my main love is rock and heavy metal. To try and get a feel for my musical taste I like Diablo, Mnemic, Alice in Chains, Pendulum, Newton Faulkner, Robbie William's "Swing When You're Winning" album (the only good thing he's done in my opinion), Pantera, a bit of Classical, Coldplay, Dream Theatre, Lordi, anything that's really bassy, Faith No More, Fun Lovin' Criminals, Lamb of God, Arch Enemy, Cypress Hill... I'm sure I'll think of more as time goes by.

I don't read as many books as I should but the books that stick out in my mind are 1984 and Mort. Oh and most comics I enjoy reading.

In terms of food you can't beat a good Chinese or Italian dish to get the taste buds jumping. Or chocolate. But I'm willing to try anything. I'm even finding out what vegetarian food has to offer. After all, why shouldn't a meat-eater try it?

The six things I could never do without

Technically there isn't anything I could never do without. However I do have a somewhat addictive personality which makes it hard to resist those guilty pleasures in life. If it's in front of me I'll indulge myself in it.

Actually thinking about it more I feel that the one thing I can't live without is music. Used correctly it has the power to set the mood, motivate, and change the way people. The world would be a pretty crappy place without music.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

... stuff. I often post my thoughts on my blog at The Grax Domain. I even do video entries too. What's this? A blog with moving pictures and sound? You mean you get to see what I look like in motion??

Good gravy, what will they think of next?

You should message me if

...you're thinking "Hmmm, maybe I should message this guy."

Otherwise you'll obsess over that thought all day and it'll distract you from your day to day tasks.

It's like obsessing over that cream-filled doughnut you've been thinking about all day, but you won't get fat if you message me.

Go on... indulge yourself.