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48 • M • Portland, OR
- Last Online
- Aug 14
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from high school
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
Cinematically (and theatrically), I'm a sucker for melodrama--particularly of the 50s/60s variety: Lana Turner in Peyton Place, Joan Crawford in Sudden Fear, nothing wrong with scaring the sh*t out of Doris Day in Midnight Lace! Then there's Douglas Sirk's ANYTHING (Imitation of Life, All That Heaven Allows, Written On the Wind), and too there's All About Eve, Walk On the Wild Side, and Touch of Evil. In a more current vein, I enjoyed I Am Love; Todd Haynes' Far From Heaven (well it's a Sirk tribute after all) and his Superstar: The Karen Carpenter Story, too. Not to be remiss, Almodovar's All About My Mother is quite probably my favorite film ever!
My fave writer is James Purdy though I grew up strongly influenced by L. Frank Baum's Ozma of Oz which remains a lifelong favorite (and a very, very gay book!) I recently enjoyed Radclyffe Hall's The Well of Loneliness and am a big fan of William Maxwell's mid-century novels, too. I'm currently reading John Rechy's "City of Night" for the first time and it's hypnotic.
While I certainly love all the great food this city has to offer (shout-out to Little Bird and Yolk and Toast), I'm perfectly content steaming up a pot of mussels at home!
But I do try to have an intention of dating somebody special as well.
- Guys who like guys
- Ages 35–59
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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