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40 Bemidji, MN Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 5
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm soft-spoken, a little on the shy side, and ultimately seeking a man who is kind, caring, chivalrous, and perceptive. I yearn to share and give. I like to laugh. I need patience and understanding. I appreciate quiet times and positive conversations. Ideally, I would like a full spectrum relationship, someone I can open up to and truly share with.

I'm open to platonic friendships and have a broad scope of interests. Find pleasure in simple things. I enjoy... all kinds of music (running the gamut from instrumental to country), walking and taking in the beauty of this world, comedy (on the cleaner side), books (from romance to thriller), movies (no blood, guts, or gore), cards (esp. Rummy 500), long scenic drives, and shmoozing, - just to name a few.

I am reflective, considerate, and intricate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking one day at a time and trying to move in a forward direction.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing is not my forte. :-) There's an art to filling out these little boxes and I haven't mastered it. :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair is... long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Improbable - Fawer, Extraordinary Powers - Finder, Winner - Baldacci

Movies: Oceans 11, Italian Job, Jumper, Confidence, Rounders, Sneakers, My Cousin Vinny, Donnie Brasco, Usual Suspects, How to Train Your Dragon, Source Code, Inception, Dear John, Lucky Number Slevin, Now You See Me.

Music: Country, Rock, Pop, Alternative, Jazz, Folk, Classical

Foods: Pineapple, Guacamole, and Mashed Potatoes (not together.) :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cell Phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
There's hope for us all and being single isn't always so bad. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This box is hereby designated as: What is something that recently brought a smile into your life?

A true story...
Person A: Would you please bring me the half drunk bottle of bubbly that's on the nightstand by my bed?

Person B gets up to retrieve the requested bottle, returns a few minutes later and remarks: I'm not sure you should drink it. I found it laying on its side passed out. It might be too drunk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Inquisitive playful persistence, will eventually tempt me to share.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Seriously, Extra encouragement goes to those who happen to:
A: have a sense of humor (you're usually smiling)
B: maintain a generally chilled personality
C: practice the conviction that words from the heart go to the heart
D: be 420 friendly and just want to chill