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63 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:00pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I've had a good life, including two long marriages and two daughters. I found what I thought would be my final relationship, one we would take to our graves, however it turns out that she really wasn't available. The good news is that I'm hopeful I can still find that special woman.
I'm fit, healthy, financially solvent, an avid public radio listener, tread lightly on the planet, read a lot, see a lot of movies, mostly Netflix, am car free and use a bicycle and public transportation to get around, like to garden, am mostly vegan (the Roman variety, when in Rome ...), work out five days / week, and have a healthy libido (though not in any hurry).
I have a great career working 32 years as a fundraiser for nonprofits, the last seven as a consultant. This provides a lot of flexibility in my schedule.
I'm open to a wide variety of experience. If you're middle of the road or conservative, I will likely not want to become lovers. Physically active is high on the list, as is healthy and thoughtful eating. The cliched 'communication' can't be overemphasized. Oh, and I adore cuddlers.
What I’m doing with my life
saving for retirement; keeping very fit, the most I've been in my life, and I've already done fairly well over the years; looking for you
I’m really good at
... listening, getting things done, being organized, my consulting practice, balance
The first things people usually notice about me
is that I'm a tad bit reserved, yet fully present and participating
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
always have one or two library books I'm readying; a long NetFlix list (independent, foreign, documentary, quirky); I've had several clients in the performing arts and occasionally get complimentary tickets; I find food cooked at home is often better than many restaurants ... my own style of cooking tends toward simple and nutritious
The six things I could never do without
why six? silly question; then there's the relative importance and ranking
On a typical Friday night I am
my "singles" Friday night is usually a nice homecooked meal, Netflix, a book, a great program on NPR
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is something you would likely find out over time
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 53–67
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you sense a connection ... and, here's a bonus ... you can find out more about my work life at greglassonde, followed by a dot, and then add on a com; lot's there