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46 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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I'm tall, fit and I have a job that I don't hate.

but wait...there's so much more!

I'm also emotionally and physically available.

And I'm not a drunk, abusive, or insane.

I grew up outside of Washington DC. I've lived in Aspen and St Croix and backpacked through Costa Rica. I've seen Fugazi many times, played D&D with Spike Jonez, and almost hit Dan Quaile with a golf ball. Oh yeah, I also shook Hunter S Thompson's bathroom hand.

"The perfect is the enemy of the good"
What I’m doing with my life
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I help people save for retirement. I've been in the financial services industry for the past 10 years. I get to sit down with people and tell them that they will never be able to retire - I love it!

up until recently, I was on a finance committee for a local non profit focused on helping portland's most financially vulnerable keep and maintain their homes.

I also have been recording music for many years with guitar/voice/4-track. No, I'm not a brooding sack of sorrow. In fact, I'm a total laugh riot. You like laughing? Me too! Especially since we're all totally doomed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love playing guitar.

I really enjoyed remodeling my home. The idea of buying a fixer bounces around in my head frequently. A welcome distraction as I wait for you.

I'm also really good at using "taco" as a verb.

and scrabble as a noun.

Question: why do so many women mention that they are excellent at parallel parking? Is this code for something much more interesting? If that's the case, I am also excellent at parallel parking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm invisible and tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Paul Auster, Kurt Vonnegut, Cormac McCarthy, H. Hesse, Tolstoy, John Irving, Stephen Crane, Will. I. Am Faulkner and Steinbeck have wired my brain and ruined most other lit. Although, I have been digging Raymond Carver these days.

I love music, so I'll name a few bands:

Band of Horses
Leonard Cohen
velvet underground
Elliot Smith
Ryan Adams
TV auf der Radio
Echo & the Bunnymen
Broken Social Scene
Cornershop (!)

My favorite comedians are: Louie CK, Jim Gaffigan, Brian Regan, Patton Oswald and Sarah Silverman.

Movies: I like the Coen Brothers and Stanley Kuberik. Ever seen "Dead Man" with Johnny Depp? Or "Moon" with Sam Rockwell? How about "Dancer in the Dark" with Bjork? I loved that movie, it'll be with me forever, I'll never watch it again. I also like stupid comedies like Anchorman, Zoolander, Step Brothers and Monty Python.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The 7 unimaginable possibilities of tomorrow. I know that's more than 6, but I just couldn't leave one out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and how to live it in a meaningful way. And the Blazers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Completely different, totally the same
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I have the free version of okcupid. So, if I show up on you're Visitors list more than once or twice, it's only because I find you to be attractive. Sorry about that.