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46 • Portland, OR • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 36–47
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 3″ (1.91m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Banking / Finance
- Rather not say
- Strictly monogamous
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
And I'm not a drunk, abusive, or insane.
I grew up outside of Washington DC. I've lived in Aspen and St Croix and backpacked through Costa Rica. I've seen Fugazi many times, played D&D with Spike Jonez, and almost hit Dan Quaile with a golf ball. Oh yeah, I also shook Hunter S Thompson's bathroom hand.
"The perfect is the enemy of the good"
up until recently, I was on a finance committee for a local non profit focused on helping portland's most financially vulnerable keep and maintain their homes.
I also have been recording music for many years with guitar/voice/4-track. No, I'm not a brooding sack of sorrow. In fact, I'm a total laugh riot. You like laughing? Me too! Especially since we're all totally doomed.
I really enjoyed remodeling my home. The idea of buying a fixer bounces around in my head frequently. A welcome distraction as I wait for you.
I'm also really good at using "taco" as a verb.
and scrabble as a noun.
Question: why do so many women mention that they are excellent at parallel parking? Is this code for something much more interesting? If that's the case, I am also excellent at parallel parking.
I love music, so I'll name a few bands:
Band of Horses
Pavement / silver jews
TV auf der Radio
Echo & the Bunnymen
Broken Social Scene
My favorite comedians are: Louie CK, Brian Regan, Patton Oswald and Sarah Silverman.
Movies: I like the Coen Brothers and Stanley Kuberik. Ever seen "Dead Man" with Johnny Depp? Or "Moon" with Sam Rockwell? How about "Dancer in the Dark" with Bjork? I loved that movie, it'll be with me forever, I'll never watch it again. I also like stupid/brilliant comedies like Anchorman, Zoolander, Step Brothers, best in show and Monty Python.
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