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49 M West Hollywood, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
Asian, Pacific Islander, White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I was thinking the other night in my ideal life right now I'd live in 2 to 4 places. Say Tokyo from March to May, SF from June to August, NYC from September to November, and somewhere else, London? Paris? Hmm, might have to change the order as London and Paris are not the best places in the winter. That would be pretty nice. It would be especially nice to do that with someone. This last year I was doing it alone. I went to 18 cities in 14 countries. Just got back about a month ago. Deciding if I should do some more. Should I? It sure would be nice to have a travelling companion.

The various cities each have their charms. Who wouldn't want to be exploring one of the 160 tiny 8 person bars in ゴールデン街 in 新宿, Tokyo or eating the latest gourmet creations at some new chic restaurant in NYC or drinking the latest hipster coffee in SF before checking out the Fake Jesus Contest?

At the same time I've also always wanted to live in suburbia. I grew up in an awesome 3bd house with a large somewhat soundproof family room on the opposite side of the house from my parents. That meant my sister and I could have slumber parties, stay up all night and not bug anyone. Having exclusively lived in apartments since I left the nest I've longed to have the luxury house living of being able to play Dance Dance Revolution or Rockband or Just Dance or just watch a movie with the sound up, have a dog and a pool and a workshop and whatever else. The house I grew up in was the house everyone hung out at. I'd like to do that again.

I'm not looking for a "classy" woman, I'm looking for a fun one. Sure I can dress up, see pictures, and I hope you can too, but I do that because it's fun, not to be "classy". If you think you're part dork you're probably well on your way to winning my heart. You don't have to wear glasses but I'm telling you glasses are super sexy. Add 2 points if you've got some.

PS: A little advice. I'm not saying my profile is any good and maybe someday I'll take a creative writing class and hopefully make that perfect profile. What I can say though is that writing the same things as everyone else will not help you meet the person of your dreams. Many people write "love to travel", "Love to try new foods". "Can be in a dress or jeans", "Living life to the fullest", "Love to workout", "Looking for my partner in crime". I'm sure there's 10 or 20 more that are in pretty much 29 out of 30 profiles I've seen. I've put those same things in my profile in the past.

The fact that they're in so many profiles means they really have no meaning. They won't help you stick out from everyone else. You want someone to notice you're special or different or give them some reason to pick you than just your picture but if your profile has the same stuff as everyone else's the picture is the only thing that's different.

So, check your clichés, remove them, and tell me something you. Maybe copy a diary entry or put your thoughts up. Anything but more cliché. Not only will it make you stick out it will also give your potential dates something more to work with when they're trying to get your attention
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning to be a better person. Most people seem to think I'm a great person or maybe they're just buttering me up. But, there's always room for improvement. Who wouldn't want to be one of those people that makes everyone feel amazing about themselves? Apparently that's a learnable skill. I'm not even close to that but I hope to be someday.

Otherwise right now I'm doing my own thing and seeing where it leads. I'm a artist in residence at the UCLA Game Lab. I made some tech they are interested in using for projects and for their classes and so they asked me to come join. I'm also going to try teaching programming at USC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speling and prefect grammers. Playing with dogs and sneezing around cats. Dressing like a player but not actually being one. Actually I usually dress down...ish
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My giant smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: LOVE EM! There's something though where it feels like there hasn't been a truly amazing movie in a long long time. I don't know if that's from growing up or what. Back in the 80s and early 90s movies like T2, Aliens, maybe Jurassic Park, where amazing. But since like say The Matrix it's hard to think of any movies that really changed the world. Are there any that stick out for you? A few I liked in the last 14 years. I liked Lord of the Rings when I first saw it. It's faded though. Loved Sin City. Loved 300. There's a few other highlights in there somewhere, Primer? Or maybe guilty pleasures like Planet Terror, Death Race (old and new actually), Kill Bill, Rebellion. What are you favorites? I'd love to discuss them.

Shows: Assuming that means TV I don't watch a whole lot of TV. One day in like 2007 I had cable. About 11am I thought "I'll watch like 30 minutes and then go out". Next time I checked the time it was 6pm. I immediately cancelled my cable and haven't had it since. No Netflix for the same reason. That said I have watched a few shows recently. GoT, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad. I can't actually say I'm a fan of any of them though. I mostly just like hanging out with friends. Favorite shows of all time though would include The West Wing and One Piece (11 years and still going strong)

Music: My favorite songs in the last 9 months. "Birthday" by Katy Perry, "Slolove" by Janet Jackson, "Livin My Love" by Steve Aoki, "Clap" by Wolfgang Gartner, "I Wanna Be Evil" by Eartha Kitt, "New Kind of Kick" by The Cramps. Please give me some recommendations. Rhapsody, Pandora, Spotify, iTunes Radio,, are all failing me. I like mostly everything more or less. I've got lots of Big Band / Swing music. Old Vocals like Sinatra or Tom Jones. Lots of Trip Hop and music that's harder to classify like the Supreme Beings of Leisure, Bitter:Sweet, Cibo Matto, Caro Emerald.

Food: I consider myself somewhat of a foodie. Trying to suppress the snob in me since the better food I eat the more disappointing it is to eat mediocre food ;) If I could I would probably try a new place every day. There's so many to pick from. Would also love to cook more. I used to cook every Wednesday for friends but that stopped after I moved to Japan. Would love to take more lessons. Would you? Have you heard about hipster toast?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My woobie
My lucky orange shirt
My camera strap
My keychain
My power supply
My backpack
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I want to be next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
none of your business ... yet?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My instagram and flickr accounts use the same user id so I'm easy to spy on
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