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29 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:29am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Starting fresh with a new profile; started to feel like OkCupid knew more about me 3 years ago than me today. I originally joined because of the deliciously nerdy OkTrends blog, in particular after seeing their proof that astrology is bunk. As an astronomer, I appreciate that.

I'm a generally quiet, laid-back guy. More introvert than extrovert though I can fake it pretty well once I get to know people. I like staying in to make dinner and play games more often than going out to clubs and bars, though I do appreciate a healthy social life and staying active. I curl, I row, and I bike everywhere.

Lately I've been feeling that scrolling through profiles on grindr, scruff, and even okcupid, has given me a really skewed outlook, and has made me start forgetting that there are people on the other side of those profile pics. I'm a real person, too, by the way. Let's meet up in the real world.

Oh, and might as well be upfront about this: sex isn't everything but it is a lot; kinky and uninhibited guys definitely get my attention. I just got back from a trip to San Francisco for the Folsom fair and loved it; who wants to come for next year?
What I’m doing with my life
Currently just finished graduate school and taking it easy for a while. I'm looking to start a good solid career but don't want to rush into anything. This is the first time I've truly had time off in a long, long time, and I want to take advantage of that.
I’m really good at
identifying poorly worded match questions. What do I do when the answers aren't mutually exclusive? Or not exhaustive? Maybe that comes from years of proofreading undergraduate essays with sloppy logic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Top three are probably The Way the Crow Flies, American Gods, and Not Wanted on the Voyage. Always try to read the CBC Canada Reads books each year; usually don't make it.

Movies: The Iron Giant, Shortbus, and Before Sunset. Oh, and The Muppet Christmas Carol.

Shows: Community, The Big C, Wilfred, Game of Thrones, BSG

Food: All of it, except olives.

Music: Can I just send you a link to my grooveshark collection?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to meet me.