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30 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 17, 2014
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I originally joined here because of the deliciously nerdy OkTrends blog, in particular after seeing their proof that astrology is bunk. As an astronomer, I appreciate that.

I'm a generally quiet, laid-back guy. More introvert than extrovert though I can fake it pretty well once I get to know people. I like playing board games or watching movies with friends more than going out to clubs and bars. During the day I like to stay active (I curl, I row, and I bike everywhere) though I love my quiet time at home on the couch just as much too.

I also want to be upfront that, while sex isn't everything by a long shot, it is important; kinky and uninhibited guys definitely get my attention. Despite being an introvert in the right crowd I can be very open about my sexual side, which is something that I've been exploring a lot lately, so I'd like to meet a guy who is up for the ride!

I've been finding it hard to get any sort of accurate impression about people from looking at profiles and even chatting online. I'm much more inclined to meet and see if we click in person. In the long term I'm definitely a settling down type---a house, kids, the whole 9---but I know there's no forcing that and just want to take things one day and a time for now and see what happens.
What I’m doing with my life
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I finished grad school last year and have translated my science research skills (poking at the universe to see what it does) into software testing (poking at a software suite to see what it does). It's basically the same job except one pays much better.
I’m really good at
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identifying poorly worded match questions. What do I do when the answers aren't mutually exclusive? Or not exhaustive? Maybe that comes from years of proofreading undergraduate essays with sloppy logic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Top three are probably The Way the Crow Flies, American Gods, and Not Wanted on the Voyage. Always try to read the CBC Canada Reads books each year; usually don't make it.

Movies: The Iron Giant, Shortbus, Before Sunset, and The Muppet Christmas Carol are my top four. I have a ton downloaded that I haven't watched yet. Anyone for a movie night?

Shows: Community, The Big C, Wilfred, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, Firefly. I really like Masters of Sex recently too. And Bob's Burgers, because Tina's awkward moan is basically my inner dialogue 80% of the time.

Food: All of it, except olives. I grew up on the east coast so I like seafood a lot more than your average Torontonian, I find.

Music: I love discovering new stuff but I am completely clueless about what songs or groups I like. Often Indie stuff. The sorts of stuff they play on CBC Radio. Embarrassingly, I realized most of the songs I have saved on grooveshark are basically the Grey's Anatomy soundtrack. My MP3 player also has an embarrassing proportion of Disney soundtracks and musicals.
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you want to meet me.