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48 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 15
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm recently single after a long relationship and am now ready to meet new people.

I am easy going with others, but very demanding of myself. I enjoy dining with friends, camping in the mountains or desert, going hiking, sleeping in snow caves, writing software, building furniture, and cooking for people.

Food and drink are a constant passion and entertainment for me. I enjoy eating out and am just as happy going to Gary Danko's or some crazy hole in the wall... as long as the food is good and people are having a great time.

I've just sold my house in SF and have moved to a new city, Oakland. I am living in a converted loft that serves as a residence and business. For work, I design software products, and love it, but have also started a fabrication and design business (wood, metal, glass... mostly furniture) and see myself moving in that direction long term.
What I’m doing with my life
I like working with materials... wood, metal, food, drinks... and building furniture, dinner, cocktails. I'm always trying something new and learning from it.

But, I enjoy people most of all; I love making dinner with friends, designing products and solving hard problems with co-workers, making art, watching bad movies, whatever.

I'm a part-time dad, of two lovely teens, one of which is entering college!
I’m really good at
stirring the pot, fomenting rebellion, fanning the flames until things happen, and finding humor in most situations;

designing software products and working with engineering teams to build things; and,

pouring a decent Manhattan
The first things people usually notice about me
I work in technology but still read the New York Times, print edition, wear glasses and I enjoy meeting people in person (less Facebook, more face time).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm currently reading White Noise by Don Delillo. I also read fiction by Murakami, Kafka, Mishima, Camus, Sartre, and the likes.

On films, I like Greenaway, Jeunet, Snyder, Kubrik, Wes Anderson, Wong Kar Wai, Kurasawa, and anything by Ed Wood.
The six things I could never do without
family, dining with friends, the black rock desert, crafty people, my work, and coffee (not all at the same time)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to answer this question in a very thoughtful way so that every reader will think I'm brilliant, sensitive, yet rugged and masculine.
On a typical Friday night I am
either falling asleep from a busy week at the office, planning a night out with friends, or just hanging out at the house watching a film.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that I can be a naughty boy when the mood strikes me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are someone who thinks life is a grand adventure, who believes that great friendships are the heart of any relationship, and is open minded about new people and experiences.