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grendel7

32 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
—
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
—
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am snakes, snails, and puppy dog tales.

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My Self-Summary

I'm back on the east coast after fifteen years in Los Angeles. I've got a nice group of friends and family who've waited patiently for my return. I'll try not to disappoint them. It feels like I just got comfortable in LA, and now have to start over again in a city I barely remember. The prospect of dating in all of this is frightening, so I'm going to take it slow.

What I’m doing with my life

I manage technology for an internet company. It's fun.

I’m really good at

I've got a quick mind and I'm not afraid to use it.

The first things people usually notice about me

ninja

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Infinite Jest, Dune, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Catch 22, Kafka on the Shore, Anger, Vineland, V, Great Gatsby, Cryptonomicon, On the Road, Illuminatus!, Rabbit serries, The World According to Garp, Days Between Stations, Ender's Game, 2001 series, Hitchhiker's Guide, Doctor Zhivago, Franny & Zooey

Movies: Donnie Darko, Rushmore, Being John Malkovitch, Casablanca, The Jerk, LA Story, Pan's Labyrinth, Secret of NIMH, The Road to Wellville, Darjeeling Limited

Television: Twin Peaks, The Office, Arrested Development, 30 Rock, CSI, Simpsons, Family Guy

Music: Death Cab For Cutie, Belle & Sebastian, Jaymay, Dresden Dolls, Fiery Furnaces, Kate Nash, Band of Horses, The Mountain Goats, Scouting For Girls, Cold War Kids, Arctic Monkeys, Badly Drawn Boy

Food: I gave up land meat a few years ago, but I don't mind if you eat it. My rule keeps me from consuming any animal that's cute, or that can learn a trick. Recent additions to this list include octopi and puffer-fish.

My loves include: Indian, Ethiopian, Japanese, Moroccan. There's not much I don't like.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Time travel, super powers, retirement, solving all the worlds problems with as little effort as possible, cute animals, food, my childhood.

On a typical Friday night I am

I like going out to nice restaurants. I'm pretty adventurous in what I'm willing to try. Art events are a great place to get to know someone. There's lots of opportunity for discussion, and I love finding that special person with whom I can criticize others :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I hide my vulnerability behind humor, but not too well.

You should message me if

you're smart

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