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30 Staten Island, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 7
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I work as a banker and im also a working musician. I play a few instruments, but drums have always been my passion. I come from a big family and am very close with them. I'm really into music, painting, sclupture, museums, concerts, movies, comics, etc. Basically anything geeky, unusual or creative im probably into lol. I'm a lifelong jets and rangers fan and i love to games and there pretty much like a family tradition.

I guess i would say that im really looking for a Strong, caring woman who doesnt take herself too seriously. I love creativity and witty intelligence and find both to both to be very attractive qualities.

Finally, I thought I'd and add some fun facts, hopefully to make it easier to see if I'm your kind of guy....

-I like Tomatos, but never on my sandwiches.

-When I first got out of college, I went away to art school to become an illustrator for a short time, before getting a degree in business

-Batman is my favorite superhero ( I know, really orginal, right?😑)

-I have 2 brother and 2 sisters, and I'm the oldest

-My favorite movie is American beauty
What I’m doing with my life
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Besides my day job in banking, I'm currently drumming for an orginal music rock band. We're in the process of recording our first album (which is taking forever!) and doing shows around the city when we can. I also do a good amount of music production and I am currently working on a few different electronic music projects with different folks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love being musically creative, and I think I'm good at that. I actaully think I'm pretty good at being creative in general. I also feel like I'm a pretty good judge of character, and I think that all of my friends are amazing people, and as a result I think I'm the kind of person that would bend over backwards for the people I'm closest with.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmm, I don't know... People sometimes comment on how tall I am. I don't really think 6'2" is that tall, because of my brothers, I'm the shortest. But i guess like everything, its all just perspective.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Camus, Lovecraft, Asimov, Frost, Steinbeck, Fitzgerald, Poe, Loeb, Bendis....just for now.

70's gritty NYC, 80's sci-fi, late 90's/early 2000's psychological/ transgressive films and the occasional indie flick at the IFC.

Van Gogh, Hopper, Beksinski, Giger, Bansky....

When it comes to music, I have always found that there is good in everything, and bad in everything and how's it heard is all a matter of perspective.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Laptop
My iPhone
A creative outlet
The ocean
My family
My friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I'm thinking about things too much....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually jamming with my band, going into the city to see a show or just hanging around
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I still listen to Limp Bizkit sometimes....
You should message me if
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If you think we would probably wake the neighbors up with our hot and Steamy, ....intellectual conversations☺️