I am bright, determined, and quirky.
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32 / F / Bisexual / Open relationship
- Last Online
- Mar 13
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from law school
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
I am bright, determined, and quirky.
After two plus years in Chicago, I moved out to the country to start a farm and adopted a puppy! I come to the city about once a week for meetings and court, but love falling asleep to crickets and frogs at my country oasis. I am in a long-term, open relationship with socialdave82. He is amazing and supportive of me living a full life, which includes the part of me that is attracted to women. ;)
I'm not so good at: bowling (but I think it's fun), archery (also fun), my end-game chess strategy, and spelling out loud.
Personally, I am a nose and intelligence sort of gal: if you are endowed with both I'm likely melting. ;) I've found that women I'm attracted to usually have dark hair. oh, and a well-bearded guy is dreamy.
i have a large personal library, which i have organized loosely under the dewey decimal system. the internet is amazing, but it's hard to beat a good physical reference material: a.k.a. book.
Webcomics: girls with slingshots, questionble content, girl genius, xkcd, penny arcade, and looking for group.
Movies: v for vendetta (i have a movie party every 5th of nov!), when harry met sally, wall-e or anything disney, gattaca, mst3k, 2001, sunshine, children of men, blade runner, revolver, anything with henry fonda, anything made by mel brooks, patton, how the west was won (cinerama is here!), the dark crystal, the life aquatic, tropic thunder, alien, repo (the genetic opera!), anything with zombies, avanti!, some like it hot, funny girl, lotr, the proposal, my fair lady, big trouble in little china, and ect. last thing i saw in the theater was Les Mis, and I enjoyed it.
TV (i don't do cable, but internet and dvds): bsg, sg-1, daily show, colbert, 30 rock, futurama, south park, venture bros., archer, deadwood, rome, flight of the concords, strangers with candy, kids in the hall, arrested devl., always sunny, and mr. show.
Music: classical music, classical indian music, jazz, blues, folk, drum circles (preferably with dancing around a bonfire), janis joplin, hendrix, grateful dead (no. 1!!), pink floyd (everything but the wall), clapton, frank and dweezil zappa (saw him in Spokane), king crimson (k c proj last summer in chicago with dream theater), brewer & shipley, the moody blues, emerson lake & palmer, nin, bowie, tool, daft punk, ccr, csny, apples in stereo, the shins, justice, cat empire, go-gol bordello (also in Spokane), flight of the concords, ratatat, old canes, iron and wine, drakkar sauna, the mountain goats (no. 2!!), neutral milk hotel, decemberists, krishna das, macy grey, muse (saw them in osaka!), flaming lips, government mule, ect.
Artists: gaudi, j. w. waterhouse, andy goldsworthy, dali, and others (this is a new category i am starting, so i will brood more on favorites).
Food: tofu, thai, indian, japanese, chinese, proper mexican, fresh bread, eggplant, chinese eggplant, zucchini, tomatoes, kale and collards, brussel sprouts, broccoli, asparagus, berries, yogurt, cottage cheese, flax seed oil, nutritional yeast powder, hot sauce, pancakes (just butter, no syrup!) ...i don't generally care for lots of meat or fried things (but will occasionally), and i'll eat cheese before sweets any day of the week. i make good hummus, and my lasagna, veggie stir fry, and sushi are incredible!
no matter how angry/upset i am, a hug will always make things better.
i'm generally sub in bed, and love a good spanking (D/s; BDSM- lifestyle is something important to me).
i have a yt channel where i post cute cat videos.
i can't help but whisper 'douche' when some hipster is biking freehand down lakeshore.
i painted miniature figurines professionally during college.
i understand Liz Lemon all too well.
i'm sick of lesbians telling me that bisexuality isn't real. we exist, get over it, and stop try to put me into your binary boxes of orientation/sex/gender!
- Bi girls only
- Ages 27–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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