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44 Hayward, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:55pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update 12/30/14 - Just got back today from a little 24hr escape to Napa with the wife. Spent WAY too much money on wine, but the time I got to spend with my wife was priceless.

I'm a bit on the introverted side but love adventure and getting outdoors when the weather is suitable (note that this also means I like skiing in the winter, when the snowfall has been suitable). I'm a wireless communications geek and enjoy being immersed in non-network dependent technology for fun and serious issues. Yeah, it also means I'm an amateur radio operator. You can ask me about that if it interests you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for a major player in the smartphone arena. I perform field testing of cellular functionality (voice, data). Sometimes there's last minute travel involved... being asked to hop on a plane "tonight" after I've only been in the office 30mins can and does happen to me a few times a year.

I'm also a burner and a long-time staff member of Burning Man. A good base of my friends and who I date are from this community. If you're one of the "Burning Man Sucks" people that have never been (I've met you... YOU suck), you should just stop wasting your time reading now. It's not a religion or my life... but it's part of my identity.

I've been involved in non-monogamous relationships in the past, but doing so with my wife is new. We've been together for 11 years and married for 3 now. Surprisingly it was all her idea. Things had a bit of a rocky start but have been getting better and better. I'm currently dating someone wonderful and things have been, for lack of a better way to describe them, pretty damn good!

A huge love of mine is wireless technology of all kinds. Specifically, I'm into anything that will function _without_ a network and in any conditions and allows me to get a message out across town, the country or to the other side of the planet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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An endless list... My music library has about 180GB of stuff... and I've owned better than 80% of it, so don't call me a pirate. Well, maybe a little bit. I like a variety of movies, even some "romantic comedies" on occasion. I'm open to new films and books. I do most of my reading when traveling for work. The last two books I've read are "Ghostman" and "Ghost in the wires"... totally unrelated to one another, and only the first is fiction. Both good. More recently was "Mule" and HST's "Hell's Angels".

Food... Anything that doesn't have coconut in it is a good start. I will eat veggies all day long and a wide variety of them, but only enjoy a few fruits. I love meat, but tend to stick to the beef, pork and poultry arenas. Bison has become an excellent replacement for beef as I tend to be a burger-lover. Doesn't mean I don't love fish, and I'm a whore for sushi. Not too adventurous when eating, but I love cooking and usually do so with about 10-20x the recommended amount of garlic. I've repeatedly been told that I make great rubs, marinades and can hold my own manning the BBQ. BBQ season is my absolute favorite.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... wishing I actually had good short term memory...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Anywhere from out at a club, party, bar, or planted on the couch. It varies, a lot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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will never be admitted here.
You should message me if
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- we match at least in the 90% range... for some reason i'm a magnet for religious single mothers... just not what i'm looking for.
- you're a geek girl
- you understand what kind of relationship I'm looking for