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37 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:00pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A hippie-in-yuppie's clothing looking for a partner in good times. Initially, I probably come across as an all-around nice guy but before long the truth comes out.

Some of the things I live for:
- overenthusiastic smiles
- periodic doses of un-PC, bay area-inappropriate humor
- new cultures / cities / ways of thinking
- coziness
- pan-searing the perfect ribeye
- spirituality, esp. through music and dance
- genuine connections, fleeting or enduring
- staying in the flow
- old souls who are kids at-heart

How about you?
What I’m doing with my life
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Stacking lettuce by writing genomics R&D software and playing this here piano, mostly gospel, reggae, jazz-influenced genres at the moment. Music is starting to take me some very interesting places, although no place beats Oakland in the summertime, am I right?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...making outlandish analogies that hold up to scrutiny. Hearing sublime harmonies. Not flaking. And I have a great sense of touch
The first things people usually notice about me
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I seem to be the type of guy strangers ask for directions from. And probably dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Songs that saved my life: Radiohead, Joni Mitchell, Jim James, Miles Davis, Brad Mehldau, The Cure, The Smiths, The Jam, Schubert lieder, Brahms, Beck, James Brown, Sly+Family Stone, Prince, Bunny Wailer, Mahalia Jackson, World Hit Gospel show on KMEL

Louis Ck, Raymond Carver, Chekhov, Anthony Bourdain, NPR, Marc Maron WTF, The Economist, Todd Solondz, Annie Hall, countless documentaries, and yes, Anchorman
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
were pianists the first cyborgs? how much cafe patrons sitting on those solo bar stools look like prairie dogs when you pass by
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Quite likely playing music or salsa dancing
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'d describe yourself as warm, excitable, and a little silly. And are ready to build an amazing relationship, should the spirit move us...