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groove_zen

37 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:21am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A hippie-in-yuppie's clothing looking for a partner in good times.

Some of the things I live for include:
- overenthusiastic smiles / being uncool
- periodic doses of un-PC, bay area-inappropriate humor
- getting my perspective flipped
- coziness
- sweetness
- pan-searing the perfect ribeye
- staying in the flow
- old souls who are kids at-heart

How about you?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to maintain balance between writing intense scientific algorithms and playing/making music---salsa dancing is my escape valve.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...making outlandish analogies that hold up to scrutiny. Hearing the perfect part. Not flaking. And I have a great sense of touch
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I seem to be the type of guy strangers ask for directions from. And probably dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Songs that saved my life: Radiohead, Joni Mitchell, Jim James, Miles Davis, Brad Mehldau, The Cure, The Smiths, The Jam, Schubert lieder, Brahms, Beck, James Brown, Sly+Family Stone, Prince, Bunny Wailer, Mahalia Jackson, World Hit Gospel show on KMEL

Louis Ck, Raymond Carver, Chekhov, Anthony Bourdain, NPR, Marc Maron WTF, The Economist, Todd Solondz, Annie Hall, countless documentaries, and yes, Anchorman
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
were pianists the first cyborgs, commonalities in worship experiences. how much cafe patrons sitting on bar stools look like prairie dogs when you pass by
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Quite likely playing music or partner dancing in some form
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you'd describe yourself as sweet, excitable, and a little silly. You are passionate about something other than climbing a corporate ladder. And are ready to build an amazing relationship, should the spirit move us...