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39 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Online now!
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5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Quick facts: I've driven an unmarked black van carrying a large quantity of contraband 300+ miles. I've recorded a track with Beth Hirsch of Air, and toured NZ + Belarus for music. I feel surprisingly at home in a gospel church.

I thrive off genuine connection, growth and being in the flow and have built my life accordingly. My sense of humor is dark but sometimes silly with a healthy appreciation for the offbeat. Case-in-point: a recent duet with a drag queen singing Jeff Buckley in front a couple hundred well-heeled gay men in masks. Oh, add fog, lights and a Puerto Rican model wearing only a thong dancing 'interpretatively' on stage...

As for dating, I like to be very warm and affectionate once we break the ice. I'm looking for someone to share all of life's charms with, big and small, mundane and sublime....isn't that the greatest feeling in the world?
What I’m doing with my life
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Part time between genomics biofuel R&D and making music
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making outlandish analogies that actually make sense. Not flaking. And I have a great sense of touch
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Songs that saved my life: Radiohead, Joni Mitchell, Miles Davis, Brad Mehldau, The Smiths, Schubert lieder, Beck, Stevie Wonder, Prince, Bunny Wailer, Mahalia Jackson, World Hit Gospel show on KMEL

Louis Ck, Raymond Carver, Chekhov, Anthony Bourdain, NPR, Marc Maron WTF, Todd Solondz, Annie Hall, countless documentaries, and yes, Anchorman. Latest book: "Confessions of a Yakuza" --- never knew so much about gambling in 1930s tokyo

Very into my Vitamix and tabata trials
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes people's eyes light up?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tickling those ivories or salsa dancing
You should message me if
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You'd describe yourself as sweet, creative, and inspired by more than dollars and cents. Kids-at-heart stop by and say hi...