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38 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:43pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Facts about me: I've driven an unmarked black van carrying a large quantity of contraband 300+ miles. I've recorded a track with Beth Hirsch of Air, and toured NZ + Belarus for music. I feel surprisingly at home in a gospel church.

I thrive off genuine connection, growth and being in the flow and have built my life accordingly. My sense of humor is dark but sometimes silly. I tend to have a my own perspective but am not pushy about it.

As for dating, I like to be very warm and affectionate once we break the ice. I'm looking for someone to share all of life's charms with, big and small, mundane and sublime....isn't that the greatest feeling in the world?
What I’m doing with my life
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I work part-time making algorithms for genomic research. For fun and pocket money I build apps. My first contract was for a medical marijuana delivery service, only in the Bay

I also make music, something that has gone from hobby to part-time living, all over the Bay Area with some occasional touring. It's my main source of daily inspiration.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making outlandish analogies that actually make sense. Not flaking. Adding bits to my stand-up routine google doc. And I have a great sense of touch
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Songs that saved my life: Radiohead, Joni Mitchell, Jim James, Miles Davis, Brad Mehldau, The Cure, The Smiths, The Jam, Schubert lieder, Brahms, Beck, James Brown, Stevie Wonder, Prince, Bunny Wailer, Mahalia Jackson, World Hit Gospel show on KMEL

Louis Ck, Raymond Carver, Chekhov, Anthony Bourdain, NPR, Marc Maron WTF, The Economist, Todd Solondz, Annie Hall, countless documentaries, and yes, Anchorman. Latest book: "Confessions of a Yakuza" --- never knew so much about gambling in 1930s tokyo

Very into my Vitamix and tabata trials
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what makes people's eyes light up
You should message me if
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you'd describe yourself as sweet, creative, and inspired by more than dollars and cents. Kids-at-heart stop by and say hi...