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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a well-balanced, mostly untrendy guy who is knee deep in the music scene--mostly around the Bay with some occasional touring. I love conversations that take on a life of their own and flash a surprising dark streak once the laughs start rolling. But it's all in good fun!

I grew up very achievement-oriented but at some point became drawn to a different source. I'm a lifelong learner and prefer experiences over things. As for dating, I'm hoping to find someone to share all of life's charms with, big and small, mundane and sublime....isn't that the greatest feeling in the world?
What I’m doing with my life
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part-time bio algorithms expert and part-time musician---dancing is my escape valve
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...making outlandish analogies that actually make sense. Not flaking. Adding bits to my stand-up routine google doc . And I have a great sense of touch
The first things people usually notice about me
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From someone at gospel church: "You're the most soulful Asian musician I've heard"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Songs that saved my life: Radiohead, Joni Mitchell, Jim James, Miles Davis, Brad Mehldau, The Cure, The Smiths, The Jam, Schubert lieder, Brahms, Beck, James Brown, Sly+Family Stone, Prince, Bunny Wailer, Mahalia Jackson, World Hit Gospel show on KMEL

Louis Ck, Raymond Carver, Chekhov, Anthony Bourdain, NPR, Marc Maron WTF, The Economist, Todd Solondz, Annie Hall, countless documentaries, and yes, Anchorman. Latest book: "Confessions of a Yakuza" --- never knew so much about gambling in 1930s tokyo

Very excited about my new Vitamix and tabata trials...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
were pianists the first cyborgs, melodic minor harmony, epic trips, food, commonalities in worship experiences, what makes people's eyes light up
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Quite likely playing music or dancing in some form ( salsa, blues )
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'d describe yourself as sweet, creative, and willing to sacrifice a little status for a good laugh. Kids-at-heart especially welcome...