Tall, fun(ny), and good...personality. Spending most weekdays in San Diego with a new job with weekends back home in Los Angeles.

So what am I doing here? Being a transplant to San Diego having someone who can point me in the right direction and plan fun things to do would be great! I am also looking for an activity partner (need to build up my conditioning for running and push me in my strength training) I've met some great people here. Who knows? Maybe you and I are the next fun match!

Getting it all out in front; I am married. My wife is a cancer survivor but it has brought our sexual life to an abrupt end due to the pain and discomfort it causes her. Beyond that we're still very much in love and she's my partner in almost all things. I still have my physical needs and do not want disrupt what is already a great relationship. We have found that the concept of "Friends (with potential benefits)" has been the best route for us both to be happy.

You'll find I am both fun and funny in all aspects. I promise I'm more charming and witty in person!

Working too much but enjoying the people i work with. Playing not enough, but enjoying every second of it that i can. Trying to enjoy my time with the new friends I have met here. I'm always looking to improve myself and to be open to new things.

Making those around me laugh and feel good about themselves.

I'm good at most things but I am NOT a handyman.

Making you roll your eyes and laugh with what I say and do!

Making a witty observation at either exactly the right time or the very WRONG time, depending on your sense of humor and our surroundings.

Being a gentleman while also having a little devil in me.

Tell me what YOU think after we've been hanging out a bit.

6'6" means I'm just plain noticed! After that most likely my eyes and smile. Humor immediately follows.

It's hard to find a genre I do not enjoy. I have recently entered a Dresden Files kick where i'm burning through that series.

If I change channels to Shawshank Redemption or Fifth Element I have to finish it...it's that good. I'm not a huge Twilight fan and I never truly got into the Harry Potter hoopla. But that said, I enjoy indie flicks just as much as the summer blockbusters, rom/coms, and even some good horror films. Someone said "just don't spoon feed it to me." I think they said it right.

Oh, and if you love The Game and/or Firefly you=WIN in my book.

Playing with my dogs
Spending time with friends/family
Exercise
Sex (gotta be honest, right?)
Good BBQ (beef, not pork)
Adventure

ways to make your toes curl. Actually I think of how to make you laugh. Then I'm thinking of something fun to do!

Why OKCupid has so many masturbation questions! Seriously, why?!

Spending time with friends or hanging out in front of the TV geeking out

Sometimes I think about liquidating everything and taking off into the sunset!

- you didn't run away screaming when you read my summary.
- you want someone that is going to make you feel good about yourself and laugh out loud
- you want a man that is attractive, confident, and knows how to treat you properly
- because something you read here resonated with you and you think another friend is a nice thing to have
- and most importantly, you know that friends is the key and that I would never push for more than you are wanting to give.