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32 M San Francisco, CA

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Last Online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Curiosity, that's core to who I am. I also love to laugh and love to make people laugh. If you have no sense of humor, well, probably a good idea to move on now (just kidding, or am I? No). I'm a good mix of fast talking New York Jew and laid back Californian (my whole family is from NY and NJ, but I grew up in NorCal). So that definitely means I have a tendency to be brash and loud and generally I'm fluent in English and Sarcasm. That doesn't mean I totally lack tact, it's just not my very first instinct.

Beyond that I'm a super optimistic guy, but I can also really enjoy being self-deprecating. And I do enjoy judging people but *only* for sport, I'm probably the most accepting person I know. Seem contradictory? Come meet me and see how those two attributes can co-exist harmoniously!

NOTE: Although seemingly simple, the task of self-summary is fantastically complex. Everyone has many facets. Plus, in order to write a great summary, you have to know yourself quite well and beyond that describe the aspects of you that are a mix of palatable to others and truly describe you. Who can do this well? My profile is my nascent attempt to understand myself better.
What I’m doing with my life
Really my goal is to change the world. And while every action changes the world a bit my aim is a little higher. I want to affect the most positive change on the world as is possible.

Currently I'm trying to achieve that goal as a Product Manager at a big Silicon Valley tech company. I tried my hand at the startup world (twice actually), but now think perhaps a big company will make my work have more impact. We shall see, I just started in mid July.

So that's a big piece of what I'm doing, while trying to get used to living in SF in a new apartment. But I also love movies and plan soon on buying a fancy DSLR and trying my hand at making some shorts.
I’m really good at
Being creative on the fly and climbing trees.

Navigating large crowds of people.

Making eggplant parmesan.

Coming up with highly relevant analogies.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books. Hmm... Crime and Punishment is my all time favorite. But honestly I don't read a ton of fiction, mostly non-fiction, something I ought to change. I also loved A Wrinkle in Time when I was little kid, re-read last year, still, totally, awesome!

Favorite movies? Um, way too many to list. And really it's more like several per category. Bad movie that I'm super nostalgic about and still love, Hudson Hawk (you may need to look it up). Art house movie that actually blew my mind, The Seventh Seal, total classic chess with death and what not. Feel good drama, I mean probably Shawshank, I mean come on, if you don't love that movie, put two fingers to your neck. Is there a pulse? Didn't think so, you're probably dead and even then, seriously, it's a great movie! I could go on and on, but why don't you message me for more thoughts on movies!

Now onto shows. TV shows or concerts? Let's go with TV. My 3 favorite shows of all time are probably, The Wire, Breaking Bad and Avatar the Last Air Bender. Yeah that's right a cartoon made the list. Also I mean there's so much great TV out there I could list at least 50 shows I think are amazing.

I like music. It's like good and stuff. Heh. No but seriously folks, I'm not a crazy concert going fool or anything, but I've been to some good shows and I have the requisite iPod filled to the brim with MP3s. On there you can find obscure indie stuff in spades, but also Justin Timberlake, The Beatles, Thelonious Monk and Beethoven's 9th. One of my favorite concerts of all time was actually a band I'm only so-so on. It show was a Devotchka concert at The Independent. They did three encores and literally ran out of (their) songs to sing. The frontman poured wine on himself on stage and then passed the bottle around to the crowd. Good times!

On the food front, I'm pretty sure I'm a foodie. But as for food styles I tend to love Italian (most regions) food and sushi the most. But one of my favorite meals ever was an 8 course tasting menu at the now closed 2 star Michelin restaurant called Cyrus. It also came with wine pairings, bam! So yeah, that's just the tip of the iceberg for me and food. I love it.

(Crap that was a lot of words!)
The six things I could never do without
(Answer under construction, still open for business while under construction)

My good friends
[working on more]

But I've read some other people's profiles at this point and there's a lot better ways to answer this question. I've seen humor and sleep on this list, and really I should make this section better.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oh man, everything I see around me? I'm not joking, I tend to walk down the street looking up. When I was kid my mom used to take me for walks in the park with the dog, but I was the one that held up the walk the most, not the dog!

Also, what's next in my life? I think about that a lot. A goal of changing the world is quite nebulous and so sometimes a little focus is in order. Thinking about focusing a little more is something I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out grabbing a drink with friends (or with someone from OKC?). Or at this point maybe just regenerating from a tough week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
(Finally found something cutesy and appropriate for this, by and large, illogical section)

The sound of an airplane toilet flushing startles the hell out of me every time, so I quickly plug my ears right after I press the flush button!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're bored and you want to grab a drink or a meal!

Or want to chat about movies, TV or food. Or if you want to engage in any of those activities.

You're a curious, non-judgmental person, who has thick skin and an optimistic attitude about the world.

You like taking long walks, of any kind.

You want to talk about international relations, the current state of media or politics, all in an amateur sort of capacity.