After the usual 20-something experiences, I came away with the usual 20-something attitudes and perceptions. In case you haven't noticed, we're on a dating site so obviously the usual isn't bringing us exceptionally positive results (otherwise you'd be so crazy about your amazing boyfriend you wouldn't be reading this, and I'd be on some adventure with my amazing girlfriend so I wouldn't have written it, right?).
In light of this, I'm inviting you to join me in trying something different. Let's be radically honest, straightforward, and authentic with ourselves and each other. I'll start: I am awesome. I have my imperfections, but it's not conceited to say that for those women who don't mind or actually like those imperfections, I am a catch. The same goes for you. You're awesome, and if I don't mind your imperfections or even like them, you could make me one really lucky guy.
Once we can agree on that, let's get to know each other. We can find out all the ways that we're both awesome, and (remember that radical honesty now) how we might not be perfect and whether we're cool with those imperfections. In and of itself this process of discovery is fun as long as we don't turn it into a job interview. This is ultimately the lowest pressure situation you could get. Remember, we're both awesome so whoever doesn't like or accept the other's imperfections is the one who's missing out.
Practically speaking, I'm just looking for awesome people to talk to under the above frame of mind. If all that comes of these conversations are a few new friends, well who doesn't like having more friends?
In light of how long this has gotten, I'm not rattling off my life story, entire list of personal interests, or explaining my personality in great detail. You can pick up on some of that above and below, but unless your life is excruciatingly busy(if it is, I'm sorry), the best idea is to take a second and send me a message.