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30 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:28pm
5′ 7″ (1.69m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Moderation is not a forte of mine.
I run 5Ks even though I hate running, I'm just competitive.
I'm honest but not necessarily tactful.
I prefer eating/drinking at the bar than sitting at a table.
I was a bartender and worked in the food/hospitality industry for many yrs.
I'm the girl who spills coffee/wine on herself all the time.
I will wipe my mouth with my hands and then wipe it onto my pants if there's no napkin.

I love the Lakers, Dodgers, MotoGP and F1.
I love watching sports in general. You can't go wrong by taking me to a game on a date.
I don't take things seriously, but it doesn't mean I'm not a serious person.
I've got lots of scars on my body, everything from cooking casualties to motorcycle accidents.
Not a cat person.

You'll either find me funny, or offensive.
I laugh easily. And loudly.
I don't have a poker face not even for courtesy purposes.
Way to my heart is through my tummy.
I'm not perfect. I'm very human.

I have a sensitive creeper meter and can smell bullshit a mile away.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Was part of the big agency machine and now a freelance creative. And life has been good since. I spend most of my free time traveling and seeing family back home in LA. I still work a lot but I have more control over what I want to do and when I want to do it. That makes all the difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
laughing at inappropriate times.

figuring out the logistics of traveling, esp last minute.

collecting bruises but not knowing where I get them from.

knowing when someone else is right.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have dimples.
I look like a sweet girl.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My taste in these categories are generally wide. I will say that I can write a dissertation on Beyonce.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Kindness, it's not a weakness.
Fear, it tells me what my next challenge is.
My motorcycle, brings me peace.
Home cooked meals by other people, it doesn't happen often but when it does, it makes me feel humble and human.
Friends & family, for obvious reasons.
Beyonce, for obvious reasons.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next goal.

Grocery list.

Better ways to keep track of my schedule.

And maybe where to run off to next. I like being on planes, trains, cars, motorcycles...foot...I just like movement. Day trips, weekend getaways, long trips, don't matter as long as I'm moving.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't take compliments well. It's a strange complex I have.

I'm a sucker for kids who fundraise for their club/sports team...I always buy their candy. I have about 20 boxes of girl scout cookies and counting...

I tear up at sporting events when the national anthem is playing.

I'm an artist so I'm sensitive about my shit.

I've been told I can't save everyone. I try to anyways.

I appreciate when guys open doors for me, walk on the outside when we're on the sidewalk, walk me to the door when I leave. Simple gestures mean a lot. It doesn't mean I'm high maintenance, it means my dad treats my mom well and taught me that the right man will want to do the same :)
You should message me if
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you are looking to be in a real relationship.

you actually read my long ass profile.

you keep up with the news.

you can watch Fresh Prince reruns all day.

you are 100% my enemy, I really want to meet you...
and have a duel.

you have strange fetishes and requests...
me and my gfs always need a good laugh.

you want to go on a real date. I don't meet for drinks cuz it feels like a cop out. If there's no risk then you don't really make an effort, right? I don't hook up. I'm not that girl.