Bottom-line: I'm interested in well-rounded, happy successful men.
Well-rounded in terms of having experiences and attitudes about life, culture, race, people, spirituality that are more open and broad than not. Happy in terms of your outlook on life. And successful in terms of your health, career, finances, and relationships with others in your life; you're in good condition in those ways so your partner can just be the delightful cherry on top (rather than the whole cake). Finally, are you open to and ready for partnership and parenthood? I am. If you're not, we may need to part ways here.
Still reading? Ok.
The former New Yorker in me makes me direct and all the personal growth work has helped me know who I am and what matters to me. I love witty, inspiring conversations with intelligent creative people -- and if they're also tall, dark and handsome and sexy to me in some way, well, so be it. Some of my favorite times are when I'm walking around a city or hiking in nature, enjoying art or a performance, and sharing ideas with someone. I have a soft spot for those with an entrepreneurial spirit and creative inventive types because I'm passionately engaged in building a business -- so I work hard at that -- and I think we would "get" each other. Even though your goals may be different, I hope you're passionate about them and engaged in them.
I'm more spiritual than religious. I'm not interested in converting you or in being converted -- I think there's room for mutual respect here too. If that's something you can handle, good. If it's something you welcome, even better. And I find energy, aliveness, and authenticity incredibly attractive. Yes, age is just a number, and yet I know myself well enough to know that I gel best with people who are physically, emotionally, intellectually energetic, fun, empowering folks.
And you're not just a good guy but a dynamic man who also shares my values and at least an interest or two. Your confidence comes from what you've achieved or what you're working on in your life, and you're proud of it without being cocky. Thankfully, the world is full of good guys. I'm just interested in more than that. If you think that's you, and you're down with all of the above, I hope I'll hear from you.
Haven't lost you yet? Woo hoo! You're getting my hopes up.
Caribbean roots-- raised in Trinidad, I'm friendly, charming, engaging, funny, kind, good listener though I occasionally get so excited I interrupt. Ok, what else? I'm sensual, exciting and excitable, loyal, love to laugh, love to make others laugh. I'm thoughtful (though I could put some more work into this one), and creative. Really enjoy improv classes, experiencing art and theater, hiking, long walks, and great conversations. Finally, I'm adventurous, ambitious, and now that I think about it some more, impatient and yet optimistic.