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42 Washington, DC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:27pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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In search of not just a good guy but a dynamic man who also shares my values and at least an interest or two. Thankfully, the world is full of good guys. I'm just hoping for a little sizzle to go with my steak. If you think that's you as you read on, I hope I'll hear from you. -------------

Caribbean roots-- raised in Trinidad, I'm friendly, charming, engaging, funny, kind, good listener though I occasionally get so excited I interrupt. Most people think I'm an extrovert but I'd say I'm more of a "centrovert" (I like this word): I can generate myself and be really out-going but then I'll need time to re-energize and be alone or just quiet with someone else. I love my own company and also love to be social and to be with people I enjoy. Just moved to Washington, D.C. and so far enjoying it!

Ok, what else? I'm sensual, exciting and excitable, loyal, love to laugh, love to make others laugh. I really appreciate personal development. I'm witty, thoughtful (though I could put some more work into this one), and creative. Really enjoy improv classes, experiencing art and theater, hiking, and great conversations.

On a first date, after the nerves quiet down, let's skip the small talk and have a conversation about something you really care about. Promise I'll do the same. I love getting to know people, not just the stuff on the surface but what really matters to you.

Adventurous, ambitious, and now that I think about it some more, impatient and yet optimistic are other ways I would describe myself as well. I'm the artsy creative typed turned entrepreneurial -- really I'm just meshing the two together.
I have these big things, big dreams I want to fulfill in my time here on the planet (more on those when we know each other better) and I know it will take more than a life of safe, easy steps or ordinary moves to accomplish them, so I'm mixing my own rhythms and dancing as fast as I can to get in harmony with this life I've imagined and with what I'm here for. And you?

I'm on OKC because dancing with a partner is so much more fun, and it's just amazing when you're in step and both having a great time.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an entrepreneur and I'm in the adventure of my life! I love who I've become and I'm in this really exciting place of exploration of new things, new possibilities, new career, new city, and more. I'm focused, ambitious, driven where it comes to the things I really care about. At the moment, finding the love of my life and making mad success in my business are at the top of the list.

I love hearing what people's dreams are; their big visions. And I'm working on making my own come true and, in the process empowering others to do the same.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* I'm the friend who'll tell you the truth in the nicest way possible but the truth for sure.
* Listening and being curious
* Networking
* Dancing -- especially to reggae and calypso
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd say big brown smiling eyes and most people smile when we meet typically because I'm smiling too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS/READING: I LOVE poetry! Lately, I've been into how-to books on success in business and investing and I'm always up for books on personal development. I am very slowly reading Napoleon Hill's classic Think and Grow Rich (when I remember it's on my laptop).

MOVIES: I loved Clooney's indy film Good Night and Good Luck, Spike's Inside Man, and small films like Mother and Child, Ordinary People, and Amelie. Though I haven't seen Before Sunrise and Before Sunset in a long time, both are still real favorites of mine. I adore films about food and passion: Tampopo, Eat, Drink, Man, Woman, Big Night, Chocolat, etc.
Absolutely, love romantic comedies, especially Love Actually.
(Hey, if you love Before Sunrise and the sequel Before Sunset, you should definitely message me!)

TV: there's a lot that I like on TV, which is why I don't own one; I wouldn't get anything done! And because I love dance, I could watch clips from So You Think You Can Dance for hours.

MUSIC: Love to dance, so anything with a beat.

FOOD: Give me Thai, Vietnamese, Indian food any day of the week. And I practically live on kale and scrambled eggs.

And I'm a big fan of modern dance and dance theater like Ailey company, regular theater and going to art museums. These are things I absolutely love but haven't been doing. Looking forward to going with someone.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
High speed internet access
My cell phone
Good conversation
Touch (slow hand and an easy touch)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* Developing my business
* How to retire by 45, move to a beach somewhere, and from there sculpt, read, make love, and run my global empire from my laptop while sitting on my front porch overlooking the beach next to someone really, really fine.
* the family I want to have someday soon.
* kissing and being kissed. Looking forward to that most of all.

* My ideal relationship would be a true partnership: connection, mutual support, great communication, having each others' backs, having fun in each other's company, and creating a family together. I'm ready for the real thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since I just moved to the area, there's nothing typical quite yet. I focus on work a lot so sometimes if I have no plans, that includes Fri night (thank goodness I love what I do :).

I'm doing this 55 day health challenge (55 days to a healthier you, sort of thing) so I've been working out more, starting to run, or power walking uphill; love going on long walks with my dog. I really value health and fitness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That when I listen to music I love, I imagine myself in some music video or movie scene based on whatever I'm listening to, whether it's Cassandra Wilson singing "Peel me a grape" or "Turn down for what?"

And I sometimes wear my wig in the shower.
You should message me if
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* You have a joyful, passionate, positive outlook on life and the world, and there's a dynamism about you and you're confident enough to be with a woman about whom that is true.
* You're looking to date and get to know someone and have a long-term relationship, and you're not scared off by the f-word (family).
* You are anti-smothering but pro-cuddling
* You are confident in who you are and what you have to offer the world, and maybe even ambitious. You care about health and being fit (you don't have to be fanatical but aware, fit, and energetic are turn-ons).
* You love conversation, not just interrupted monologues but real back and forth, give and take, talk and listen, share and connect conversation, definitely message me.
*You took the time to create a profile and answer questions (and you're not challenged by writing sentences with more than four words). AND your profile includes a picture of yourself.
* We're at least a 70% match. You live in/ near this general area -- Washington, DC metro area.
* You have a joyful, positive outlook on life and the world, and there's a dynamism about you and you're confident enough to be with a woman about whom that is true.
* you're perfectly imperfect and ok about it and compassionate enough to be with a woman about whom that is true.