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34 M Lakewood, OH

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:07pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), French (Okay), Hungarian (Poorly), Welsh (Poorly)

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My self-summary
At my core I am a romantic, and my passion runs deep in music, business, relationships, family and life. I am really good at making people laugh. I focus on caring about and giving 100% of myself to the people that matter to me. Some of the most important things about me are that I am a great dad, I love cooking, music, technology and my work. I have built a substantial high profile career for myself in Health Information Technology and as an entrepreneur... I work hard, but I play hard as well (maybe even harder).

That said, most people can't keep up with me.

My life story is incredible, and I have been fortunate to live a life most could only dream of. Nothing about me or my life is typical. When getting to know me, people find it amazing how many "surprises" they find out about me... things I have done, things I know how to do, or the things I know a lot about. I have very diverse skills and life experience, and can hold my own in a conversation in just about anything.
What I’m doing with my life
Here's me in a nutshell:

1. I am hilarious. I will make you laugh - that's just what I do and what I enjoy.. Laughter makes any situation better.

2. I am an intellectual. I love thinking and mental exercise. I love the burn / numb you get from a good debate or work session where you know you just pushed yourself to your intellectual capacity. Some people get off going to the gym, I get off getting smarter. Knowledge is power.

3. I am a musician - I was a pianist for over 20 years and played professionally until I decided to focus on business. I play piano, bass guitar, guitar, and french horn. I was classically trained and also jazz trained. I have perfect pitch. I have a home studio and have been working on a few electronic / metal projects with some locals - I'm almost always listening to or working on music when I'm not doing other things.

4. I am a die hard entrepreneur and visionary. I have started successful companies and I have had plenty of failures. I have founded everything from medical software companies to apparel companies, and have funded several others. I also volunteer and mentor entrepreneurs and tech startups in the Cleveland area for a local venture capital organization

5. I am a Ninja. No, seriously. I have studied many martial arts including a few years of Genbukan Ninpo which is the actual teaching of the scrolls of the samurai and ninja of feudal japan. I studied everything from running up walls, to battlefield etiquette to spiritual healing and defense.

6. I am a technology expert. I was a computer hacker when I was a teenager and worked with hackers around the world before the Internet was "cool". I turned this hobby and skill into a highly lucrative career solving the largest technology problem of this century - the healthcare system.

7. I am a father. I had a daughter that was born at 24 weeks and 4 months in the NICU and I slept in a chair for months watching her sleep on an apnea monitor. She is absolutely perfect and healthy. I make superhuman children that just happen to be beautiful and brilliant... Our connection is beyond what most people could even comprehend.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. Caring about and giving 100% of myself to the people that matter to me. Being a great dad, cooking, music, technology and my work. I definitely love to have fun and can be spontaneous, unpredictable, and go with the flow in the interest of fun - or to have an experience that would make for a great life story... but only after responsibilities are met, and those that need me are taken care of.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm often told my eyes, smile, energy, and personality. If you get me talking about something I'm passionate about, I can be quite intense. If you listen, you'll probably learn something, and hopefully if it's a good conversation, I'll learn something as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is an impossible question. I take in anything awesome and have a wide variety of interests.

I'm not a big reader of fiction. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy reading or not educated, but the free time I do have to read is usually filled with something technical or researching. I google just about everything (movies based on a true story - I have to look up the story). If I do read fiction, i usually enjoy medieval fantasy, or classics like brave new world or the great gatsby. I also do thoroughly enjoy Ancient Greek philosophy as well.

I'm a bit of a documentary junkie aside from that I do enjoy movies, but I don't actually follow any shows - who has time for serious TV?

I would say I legitimately listen to anything... However, I can say with certainty that music is the soundtrack to life, so for any period or event in my life, I will have a song that will trigger memories... so music is incredibly important to me. I tend to prefer hard house, some dubstep, dnb and trap when talking about EDM and all sorts of metal from newer stuff all the way back to slayer, dio and the classics. And I even hung out with slayer in their dressing room when doing an interview. :)

I will try eating just about anywhere once and always love experimenting with new recipes - I cook well. Among my favorites are Sushi, Chipotle, and a good burger (although trying to cut out the red meat - doesn't mean I don't still love it)
The six things I could never do without
1. My Daughter
2. My Family
3. Music
4. Coffee
5. Laughter
6. Living life to the fullest
I spend a lot of time thinking about
*Insert random thought here*... Switch. *insert another random thought here*... Switch.. *and another random thought*... Switch... *back to the first thought* - yeah, I kind of have some ADD :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually out finding something exciting to get into or spending time with my daughter/family, depending on what night it is. I am usually up for anything and everything if I have the night free of responsibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not at all a private person, but you are going to have to ask!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You are someone who can keep up with me intellectually, mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, sexually.... The chances that this is possible is near zero, but I am interested in anyone that might be able to keep up with me in a few areas and pique my interest. I can't stress the importance of people being highly secure and confident in who they are and what they want... If you are confused about your life direction or who you are, we probably won't have much to talk about.

... But you won't be able to tell all the great / quirky things about me from a silly online profile. Might as well at least drop a line and see what I am all about