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34 Staten Island, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Thanks for stopping by!!! Was raised in NYC and I've moved around a lot. Made it back here about 5 years ago full time. Don't be scared by 'Staten Island,' lol. I mainly just sleep here. Most of my work/play happens in Brooklyn or in the city.

I'm a huge NY sports fan - Yankees, Knicks, Giants, Rangers (I root for the Mets/Jets as long as they're not playing the Yankees/Giants). I have yet to truly accept the Nets as a 'NY team.' I'm mainly a baseball person but I can intelligently discuss/debate almost all sports (yes, even hockey).

Just a laid back, funny, intelligent, witty gentleman (that's right, chivalry is NOT dead) looking for a partner in crime so why not send a message??? ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a professional musician (I play guitar). I write and record my own music as well as a lot of freelance work. I play in a show, a music revue, that's now in its third year!!!

When I'm not doing music I work as a captain for a large catering company in NYC. This means that I run or help to run a lot of high profile events throughout NYC and other places

I do like to travel although I don't get to do a whole lot of that. I'm looking to do more of it in the very immediate future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Coming up with a quick, witty/sarcastic remark for you comments. I also have a self deprecating sense of humor so I never really take myself too seriously.

I have an uncanny ability to retain movie/TV dialogue although I wish I could use that space in my brain for other things.

I'm a ninja when it comes to fighting my way through tourists while navigating the city.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall - not very tall - but I find that I'm taller than about 60% of people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most Coen Bros and Quentin Tarantino's films
The Watchmen
Dumb and Dumber
The Ocean's series (11, 12, and 13)
The Bourne trilogy
Most of the Judd Apatow movies
A lot more but I don't feel like thinking of the rest

I don't really keep up with too many shows but a few that I do try to catch are Brooklyn 99, Impractical Jokers. When I get the opportunity, I love a good SVU marathon!

Being a musician, I have a forever rotating catalog of music I listen to on Spotify. I love jazz, classic R&B, classic rock. One of my favorite bands right now is Hiatus Kaiyote - if you don't know them, check them out. One of the few bands out there that truly sound like no one else.

"I swore never to read another book after To Kill A Mockingbird offered no valuable advice on killing mockingbirds."

In all honesty, I was never much of a reader beyond assigned reading but I'm ready for your suggestions!

I'm probably the least pickiest eater in the world so the easier list is probably things I don't like.

Eggs. I can eat them scrambled or omelettes or even egg whites but I can't do runny egg yolk. I can't do eggs over easy and I can't even sit and watch someone else eat them. I can't stand deviled eggs either.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-The gym
-Internet (sadly)
-Women :)
-Converse Chuck Taylors (4 pairs and growing)!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

The future, whatever that might be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical. It all depends on the mood I'm in. I could be out and about or I could be on here debating whether or not to message you!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cannot swim. I have an irrational fear of water (if the water is past my waist, I won't go in.
You should message me if
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You know the differences between 'your' and 'you're,' 'to' and 'too,' and 'there,' their,' and 'they're.'

You appreciate good music!!

You have a good book recommendation for me.

You enjoy good conversation as well as enjoying each other's company in silence.

So if you're down this far go ahead and send me a msg. What's the worst that can happen??? I'm always down to meet new people, grab some drinks/coffee, go to a museum, go for a walk, or go check out some live music. Also, I find it incredibly sexy for a woman to approach/msg me first, but that doesn't mean I won't make the first move if I need to.