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  • Ages 45-56
  • Located anywhere
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Last online
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5' 11" (1.80m)
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Average build
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Atheism but it’s not important
English, English, English, English, English
My self-summary
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Musician with a house and day job(paradoxical,no?)alright-music geek. I have my own house, car,garden,chickens and too many guitars. Although I'm a bit of a homebody in a fixer home it's good to get out now and again .
I like to read books that won't let me go,watch DVDs that are a bit left field;documentaries and angsty European arthouse stuff....or even British comedy,when I can find any. If I can't,I simply invent my own. I like making people laugh.Although I can tread water with the small talk I'd prefer to have a conversation that is closer to 'meaningful' than spout fluff to pass the time.

I also work nights,three a week,leaving me a fair bit of free time-the yard is almost weeded-OK,more than halfway there!
I've been eating healthier and cut out drinking but otherwise I'm in good shape(B.T.W. I'm not an alkie or a 7th day adventist).No fast food . Sports are generally a turn off for me-sorry,semi-sedentary cyclist here.

No tats or piercings which seems to count as 'different' around these parts, although I do have chickens and a herb garden.Ideally,it would be nice to meet someone who's literate, funny and musical,online even-who knows.......
What I’m doing with my life
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Playing music,gardening,paying the mortgage,slowly fixing up my fixer house-before it fixes me.
I work nights. Thurs/fri/Saturday but generally have the rest of the week free.
I’m really good at
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Playing guitar and fiddle(they tell me). Making people laugh. Daydreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My accent;I'm from the UK.I get the same questions most days;usually wondering if if I'm from Australia/NZ/New England...I've never been to these places and the questioners have obviously never been to Sarf London.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm not trying to impress anyone reading with my preferences-I have shelves full of books yet to be read;just interested in resonance.

Books:The cello suites'-Eric Siblin.
Revolution in the head-Ian Mac Donald.
Everything by Patrick O'Brien
Currently reading 'The geography of nowhere',by Kunstler.Fascinating,if you want to know why America looks the way it does.
Film;Withnail & I
The kite runner
Sexy beast
Talk to me
Persuasion(90s-Amanda Root version)
anything 'kitchen sink' from the UK(nostalgia!)
almost anything by Loach,Winterbottom and Leigh-you get the picture.....

Music;lots of fiddle and guitar stuff from the British Isles(surprise!)and the rest of the world-literally.
The Beatles
Baroque and early music
World music-especially stuff from Hawaii,India,Arabic,kora from Mali and guitar from Madagascar.
Country music from the 40s,50s and 60s
Jazz,from ragtime through to early bop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

Only six?Sheeeesh!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where's it all going/what does it all mean?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm doing online dating/great teeth for a Brit/ I still use a flip phone and I don't care.
You should message me if
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You got this far and didn't fall asleep.