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guy145

21 / M / gay / Single

Rockwall, Texas

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), Sign_Language (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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I am intelligent, loving, and humorous.

My Self-Summary

Look at the section called The most private thing I'm willing to admit here to find out about the description of why I call myself shallow.

I'm really not very trusting of online dating sites because they have a tendency to fail me (as well as many others), however I figured, if this one is as "free" as it says, it can't hurt to try.

I'm told that I have wisdom beyond my years, but I just do what I feel is right, and go with my heart. I'm easy to like, and love to talk and play.

Perhaps I should talk a bit more about some other stuff, though...
I live by the idea that the thing the world is lacking the most right
now is love and forgiveness (as a package, you know... a group deal).
So, it's for this very reason that I'm working hard (or hardly working?)
on making the world a more loving place. Understanding each other isn't
a requirement to love somebody else. It can even be a hindrance, but
being able to go beyond sympathy and into the realm of empathy for others,
that is the path to loving. Love is a term that's overused these days.
As the result, it's seemingly lost its meaning. When I'm talking about love, I'm usually referring to true love, not that fake love like
"I just love pizza!" or "He's sooo hot, I think I'm in love."
Attraction, infatuation... that's not love, it's not in our control,
but it's also not love. That would be what I'd classify as liking somebody's physical appearance. No, when I refer to love I mean the love
that thinks of the other person, and even when you don't like them,
you make the conscious choice to be nice to them because you love them.
Why would you do that if you don't like them? See, that's the point!
Everybody deserves to be loved simply for being a human being.
This probably isn't a very popular view, especially when that statement
implies that I mean everyone from a cute little baby to a serial killer
who rapes, kills, steals, and never feels any compassion about it.
See, this is where it's difficult for most people to understand, so I will
make this quite clear. I'm saying you should LOVE that person, but I am NOT saying that you have to condone any of their actions. By far, I should say you should not condone their actions at all because their actions go against the law of love, and sow seeds of hatred, sorrow, misery, and all those terrible things... which is, in part, why people would find it hard to say they love those people. I'd say that I love everyone, but that I don't necessarily approve of what everyone does. As I think I've shown, I have my own opinions of what's right and wrong, but one thing is for sure: if something is done in love, true love, then it can't be a bad thing to do. However, one must use proper logic in knowing what the loving thing to do is... as that can be difficult to know. I mean, situations in which the choice is to be honest and hurt a person's feelings or tell a lie to spare them... that's where the logic comes in. Usually, in a situation like that, it's better to be honest in a soft way... such as equivocation.

But I think I've rambled on enough about that, so...

I have a nickname, Zack. I kind of prefer being called by that, but I can make exceptions.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm currently attending college.
I'm planning on graduating to get into
the video game industry, where I hope to
make the things I enjoy... really interesting games.

I’m really good at

Video games, reading, volleyball, and computer related activities are things I'm really good at doing.

I also am good at writing stories that end up being very involved. My only problem with them is finishing them.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm noted to be nice, happy, polite, and helpful.

Feel free to let me know what else you notice at first,
once you meet me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I couldn't even begin to fill this section out.
If I even tried, I'd run out of room, I don't
care how big this section is supposed to get.

I read mostly fantasy or fiction, but I'm open
to just about anything.

As for movies, music and food... that's such a large
category, you'd do better to ask me what I don't like.

The six things I could never do without

1. My God
2. Free Will
3. Time off, occasionally
4. Love
5. Video Games
6. Sleep
7. What a seventh one? Yeah, just kidding.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Love, life, human rights, religion, strategy, and situations in life interactions.

All the above, I spend time thinking about...
however, that's not just it...
I tend to find my thought processes work
like a train: one thought links to another.

On days when I can't keep track of my thoughts clearly,
I say I've been involved in a wreck, where my train of thought
was derailed.

On a typical Friday night I am

Up late, playing video games, watching anime, doing homework, reading, or sleeping (which means I'm not really up late, then, huh?).

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm shallow. Now to explain:

I don't care about looks when it comes to friendships,
but when it comes to relationships, I begin to get
more picky. I'm not overly picky, but I know what I
do NOT want. Having tried to have a relationship
with someone who fit a description of what I didn't want
and seeing it not turn out right, I hate to admit it,
but I do. I'm not perfect, and I am too shallow for my looks,
knowing that I'm not "cute" or "hot" enough to be picky,
by most people's standards. Still, I'd appreciate if
whoever reads my profile not just blow me off as some guy
who's ONLY in it for looks, because there's lots of other
good qualities in me that you can find, and I don't know
ANYONE who hasn't (at one time or another) thought someone
wasn't their "type" physically. Just give me a chance.

You should message me if

You think you're right for me, you want to be friends or you think I'm right for you. Also, feel free if you just want to talk.