I am intelligent, loving, and humorous.
My Self-Summary
Look at the section called The most private thing I'm willing to
admit here to find out about the description of why I call myself
shallow.
I'm really not very trusting of online dating sites because they
have a tendency to fail me (as well as many others), however I
figured, if this one is as "free" as it says, it can't hurt to
try.
I'm told that I have wisdom beyond my years, but I just do what I
feel is right, and go with my heart. I'm easy to like, and love to
talk and play.
Perhaps I should talk a bit more about some other stuff,
though...
I live by the idea that the thing the world is lacking the most
right
now is love and forgiveness (as a package, you know... a group
deal).
So, it's for this very reason that I'm working hard (or hardly
working?)
on making the world a more loving place. Understanding each other
isn't
a requirement to love somebody else. It can even be a hindrance,
but
being able to go beyond sympathy and into the realm of empathy for
others,
that is the path to loving. Love is a term that's overused these
days.
As the result, it's seemingly lost its meaning. When I'm talking
about love, I'm usually referring to true love, not that fake love
like
"I just love pizza!" or "He's sooo hot, I think I'm in love."
Attraction, infatuation... that's not love, it's not in our
control,
but it's also not love. That would be what I'd classify as liking
somebody's physical appearance. No, when I refer to love I mean the
love
that thinks of the other person, and even when you don't like
them,
you make the conscious choice to be nice to them because you love
them.
Why would you do that if you don't like them? See, that's the
point!
Everybody deserves to be loved simply for being a human
being.
This probably isn't a very popular view, especially when that
statement
implies that I mean everyone from a cute little baby to a serial
killer
who rapes, kills, steals, and never feels any compassion about
it.
See, this is where it's difficult for most people to understand, so
I will
make this quite clear. I'm saying you should LOVE that person, but
I am NOT saying that you have to condone any of their actions. By
far, I should say you should not condone their actions at all
because their actions go against the law of love, and sow seeds of
hatred, sorrow, misery, and all those terrible things... which is,
in part, why people would find it hard to say they love those
people. I'd say that I love everyone, but that I don't necessarily
approve of what everyone does. As I think I've shown, I have my own
opinions of what's right and wrong, but one thing is for sure: if
something is done in love, true love, then it can't be a bad thing
to do. However, one must use proper logic in knowing what the
loving thing to do is... as that can be difficult to know. I mean,
situations in which the choice is to be honest and hurt a person's
feelings or tell a lie to spare them... that's where the logic
comes in. Usually, in a situation like that, it's better to be
honest in a soft way... such as equivocation.
But I think I've rambled on enough about that, so...
I have a nickname, Zack. I kind of prefer being called by that, but
I can make exceptions.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently attending
college.
I'm planning on graduating to get into
the video game industry, where I hope to
make the things I enjoy... really interesting games.
I’m really good at
Video games,
reading,
volleyball, and
computer related
activities are things I'm really good at doing.
I also am good at
writing stories that end up
being very involved. My only problem with them is finishing them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm noted to be
nice,
happy,
polite, and
helpful.
Feel free to let me know what else you notice at first,
once you meet me.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I couldn't even begin to fill this section out.
If I even tried, I'd run out of room, I don't
care how big this section is supposed to get.
I read mostly
fantasy or
fiction, but I'm open
to just about anything.
As for movies, music and food... that's such a large
category, you'd do better to ask me what I don't like.
The six things I could never do without
1. My God
2. Free Will
3. Time off, occasionally
4. Love
5. Video Games
6. Sleep
7. What a seventh one? Yeah, just kidding.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Love,
life,
human rights,
religion,
strategy, and situations in life
interactions.
All the above, I spend time thinking about...
however, that's not just it...
I tend to find my thought processes work
like a train: one thought links to another.
On days when I can't keep track of my thoughts clearly,
I say I've been involved in a wreck, where my train of
thought
was derailed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Up late,
playing video games,
watching
anime,
doing homework, reading, or sleeping (which means I'm not really up
late, then, huh?).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm shallow. Now to explain:
I don't care about looks when it comes to friendships,
but when it comes to relationships, I begin to get
more picky. I'm not overly picky, but I know what I
do NOT want. Having tried to have a relationship
with someone who fit a description of what I didn't want
and seeing it not turn out right, I hate to admit it,
but I do. I'm not perfect, and I am too shallow for my looks,
knowing that I'm not "cute" or "hot" enough to be picky,
by most people's standards. Still, I'd appreciate if
whoever reads my profile not just blow me off as some guy
who's ONLY in it for looks, because there's lots of other
good qualities in me that you can find, and I don't know
ANYONE who hasn't (at one time or another) thought someone
wasn't their "type" physically. Just give me a chance.
You should message me if
You think you're right for me, you want to be friends or you think
I'm right for you. Also, feel free if you just want to talk.