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46 M Evanston, IL

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
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Mostly anything
When drinking
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
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Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
UNRULY OGER SEEKS PRINCESS to feed me spaghettio's from a can. I'm actually a TV star (clap if you've seen me on COPS). That commercial, "most interesting man in the world?" Ok, that's not me. However I do enjoy tennis, sushi, soft candlelit dinners... c'mon, I'm trying here.

I'm a big music fan- I tend to see at least one show/month; am told I look a lot younger than I am (ie the pics are current); I run a company I started 17 years ago, which gives me some flexibility with my most valued commodity, time. I would really like to find someone I connect with, whom I can't stand to be away from, whom I complement and vice versa, and who appreciates all the beauty life offers. Having been married before, I understand that it takes a high level of commitment to make it work, and I am looking for someone who 'gets' that and is willing to put in the work.
What I’m doing with my life
I write music, and front an indie rock band; I go to a new restaurant each month with friends I've known for 20 years. I'm trying to learn meditation and it's hard as hell. I exercise, and love wine.

I've been divorced for 9 years, and am looking for a great woman.
In a potential mate, I value honesty, self confidence, self knowledge, curiosity, affection, warmth, integrity, smarts, a good sense of humor, and someone who takes care herself physically. An intellectual side is important to me.
I’m really good at
I'm a good songwriter (see above). I can't lie if I wanted to (which I suppose makes me really good at being honest). A former girlfriend told me I'm the most reliable guy she's known (come on now, that's not as bad as you're telling yourself). I'm really good at some stuff that I shouldn't write in a public forum (some things should be left for you to find out). I'm a good athlete (actually, since turning 40, I'm a guy who looks athletic but injures himself way too often). I make people laugh.

I'm really good at being a dad, and love it.

(BTW... while I'd be content going to my grave with my current offspring, I would consider having another child, though I am not in a rush. If you urgently need to breed in the next 12-24 months, I'm not your guy. Establishing a solid relationship and having a child 3 yrs down the line could make sense)
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a brother 12 years younger than me; recently we were out and when told we were brothers, they guessed he was older than me. I often hear I look 10 yrs younger than my actual age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book - I love David Sedaris and Malcolm Gladwell's stuff; A Confederacy of Dunces;
Movie - The Big Lebowski
Music - Modest Mouse, Wilco, The New Pornographers, Elliot Smith, the Replacements, Spoon, Guided by Voices...
Food -- love it all
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being present.
If putting herself on every cover helps or hurts the sales of Oprah's magazine. If Maroon 5 has to pay royalties to Michael Jackson's estate
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating