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guyinatshirt

42 / M / Straight / Married

Asheville, North Carolina

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:48am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I was told by a seemingly intelligent woman that my profile made me sound like a "sex fiend". Sigh....... Needless to say that was NOT the goal. A bit "one track mind-ish of late but far from a fiend. So, I slight revamping and hopefully a newly burnished vibe.
If I ended up in your quiver, well...."Sorry about that."
I am a married guy who finds women more and more interesting the older I get. I am intrigued buy what is going through your minds now so much more than I did when I was younger. Such a mystery.
Anyway, I am not angry or wanting. My sex life is fine and I am not a walking cliche. I am not on this site sharking for young women with a daddy complex nor I am wanting to take advantage of lonely divorcees needing affection.
What I am looking for is fun conversation and perspective on relationships.
There is no doubt that I am here due to something lacking at home. Whether you call it a lost spark or the fact that my wife and I now go through the day more like we are running a small business something is missing.
So call this a mid life crisis, a jump start or maybe I am simply looking for friends, a potential lover or someone that can give a healthy dose of realism. I am open to all of it.
I just read this over after being gone and realize that what I really want is an affair. So much for being progressive.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a self made man who has done everything I have set my mind to. I am now turning my energies to things that seem to be blocking some basic level of contentment and happiness.
I’m really good at
Being funny.
Seeing balance.
Catching bullshitters.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Good god do I love to read.
I would trade a pinkie finger if I ALWAYS had a good book to look forward to.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Feel like dinking around the edges of a crusty old taboo.