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34 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:58am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently), Other (Fluently), Hebrew (Okay), Arabic (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Single guy, looking for other single guys who are interested in meeting and seeing how things evolve.

I grew up in India (mostly) and moved to the U.S. ~12 years ago for grad school. I have lived in SF for more than five years, and it is home. I enjoy meeting new people and hearing their stories. I also enjoy spending time talking / hearing about / understanding different cultures.

I am not looking for fleeting encounters and am not interested in open relationships. I am also not into the stereotypical gay scene.

I am pretty happy with my life, and would love to meet someone special (for lack of a better word) to share it with. Intelligence is sexy. Nice-ness is attractive. Playfulness is desirable.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I like exploring different neighborhoods in the SF Bay Area and have a few favorites. Here are my current top choices:

I like walking to the top corner of Dolores Park, either on a sunny day or on a clear night and sit there, enjoying the views, preferably with someone I can enjoy having a conversation with.

I like driving up to Sausalito on a sunny day (also get to go over the Golden Gate bridge!), get brunch on the bay and walk through the shops in downtown. The art stores over there have some really nice pieces!

I like walking up on Montgomery street from Market, all the way to the ocean. The buildings / views are great, and there is a wonderful garden you can walk through at the end, and climb down to Embarcadero.

Fort Funston is fun. So is Marin.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Smiling, Cooking great tasting Indian food, Hugs. May be leave the rest out for you to find out?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Possibly my smile. And, I am taller than most people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Fiction - Kite Runner, Malgudi days, Mahabharata, anything by Enid Blyton (as a teenager).
Non-fiction - Dhammapada, Intelligence and how to get it, Ultrametabolism, The Abs Diet, Healing Anger, Bhavadgita, The exceptional presenter, Getting things done.

Food: Thai, South-Indian, Indo-Chinese, Burmese, Schezuan, North-Indian, Italian, Fusion. Mostly vegetarian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A few people I love and care for / Positive attitude / Good food / Some cherished memories / Good will
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My friends and family / protein biochemistry
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home after a long week / Eating out and watching a movie / Spending time with people I like.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You would like to get together and see what kind of chemistry we might share
- You would like to share your favorite places in the Bay area with me
- You are looking for a long term relationship (meaning, a life-partner) and have thoughts about getting married sometime in the future
- You have experienced unconditional love, either within you or from another person

Or, any of the above!