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gypsydiver

20 / F / bisexual / Available

Charlotte, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am always, always, rocking, and rolling.

My Self-Summary

I don't really get these, for one thing. I write in a blag occasionally, figure me out by reading that. Or talking to me.

Okay, okay, lazy. Sheesh.

I like to paint. And draw. And write poetry and prose. And sculpt.

Oh, and I'm also a total geek. My mom (you know mothers) seems to think this is unattractive in a woman, even though she was the one who forced it on me. (Band nerd forcing her daughter to read Lord of the Rings? Yeah. Her fault.) But I don't really want a lover who thinks my nerdiness is unattractive, so it works out.
I like video games and html. I watch a lot of anime in my free time.

I am pansexual and polyamorous. I'm willing to start a discussion with anyone about what that may be.

I'm also a book worm. Like, a big one.

I'm dating Gamersjd. He is my super Slinkster.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm living in my little apartment in Charlotte with my Slinkster Programmer boy, trying to make rent and go to school. I don't know, I don't really like this part, it feels like an essay I'd write in school.

I'm an English major, essentially. I was pre-English at my last school for communications. Not really sure what I want to do in the future. I'll probably be deciding what I wanna be when I grow up when I'm 40.

Recently I've been writing more prose and learning guitar.

I’m really good at

Smiling. And drinking Mountain Dew. And playing with my cat. And writing in my blog, when I actually write in it. When I'm not writing I guess I'm pretty bad about it, though.

I've been told I'm good at sculpting and painting. And sometimes making videos, but those are just for fun.

I KNOW I'm good at writing. And reading. And singing, I rock that. I know lyrics like whoa.

Developing crushes. Keeping said crushes.

Putting myself down. NOT anymore.

The first things people usually notice about me

My glasses. And then the fact that my clothes don't match, probably. Maybe that I wear cheerful accessories but not happy clothes.

Also, I'm short. And I don't wear make-up.

And I'm probably reading or driving in a red Beetle with black spots. So I get noticed for that. Especially when I'm blasting metal or J-Rock.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Oh, now you've gone and done it.
J. R. R. Tolkien, J. K. Rowling, Orson Scott Card, Christopher Paolini;
I love love love Neil Stephenson and Neil Gaiman. And Francesca Lia Block. I also like Chuck Palahniuk. Of course. And I really like old Brit Lit. Like The Three Musketeers, Wuthering Heights, Jane Eyre, Pride and Prejudice. I just like to read. (Except for Twilight, and I even TRIED that. It just didn't work.)

And I just like movies, too. Every single Lord of the Rings movie, including the 1970's animated/live action crap, and the Bass-Rankin Return of the King. (Where there's a whip, there's a way.)
My favorite movies are Harold and Maude, American Beauty, My Neighbor Totoro, Wall-E, Beauty and the Beast, Fight Club, American Psycho, Leon (or The Professional). Movies that make me cry. (But nowadays, anything makes me cry. I cried at the very beginning of Up.) Movies that make me think. GOOD horror, especially zombie movies. Or B films. I just like movies. (Except Twilight. Again. But I know tons of people who do.)
Wanna know if I like it? Try me. Send me a message.

And I eat anything. My favorite is Indian food, but Chinese, Japanese (sushi. yum.) Taco Bell, Sonic, and Jack in the Box are my favorite fast foods.

My playlist right now has almost 3,000 songs in it, including but not limited to the discography of The Dresden Dolls (whom I have seen live) and Amanda Palmer, Emilie Autumn (!!!), Death Cab for Cutie, The Decemberists, Mindless Self Indulgence, Amos Lee, every single Zelda soundtrack, all the Buzz Ballad and Buzzcuts, etc. Oh, and of course System of a Down. The Beatles are my favorite band, probably. Simon and Garfunkel, Eisley, The Mamas and the Papas, David Bowie, Bob Dylan... J-rock, like Diru and An Cafe.

Video games should be down here, too.
I used to play World of Warcraft. But If you're curious, I played Horde most of the time.
Sims (1, 2 & 3), Spore, Portal, Half Life 1 & 2 (as well as mods, see Natural Selection), free MMORPGs, Kings Quest and Space Quest games.
Lately, I've been playing more old school RPGs. Currently replaying Kingdom Hearts, Jet Set Radio Future, Katamari Damacy, UmJammer Lammy, and Legend of Mana.
I own: NES, SNES, Genesis, Dreamcast, N64, Wii, PS3, and XBOX 360.

Just started playing Borderlands and I love it.

The six things I could never do without

Companionship
A warm bath
My laptop (with internet and uTorrent.)
My cat.
A creative outlet; clay, paint, pen and paper, etc.
My thumbs.

On a typical Friday night I am

Nothing, lately. I'm new to Charlotte.
What SHOULD I be doing?

I'm probably playing a video game.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I just got out of a five year long relationship in February.

I'm really very awesome, but I gots some issues. But so does everyone. I can talk about them, if you're interested.

I'm addicted to caffeine.

I listen to an embarrassing amount of pop punk. (Old skool Simple Plan and Blink-182.)

I can spell embarrassing without a spell check (but I couldn't until January of this year.)

You should message me if

I will *not* respond to winks. They're lazy and will not start a conversation with me. Try harder. I also will not respond to an IM unless we've had a decent message conversation first (consisting of two messages, please.)

You wanna chat with a girl with similar interests. If you know where I can meet an awesome community of anime and video game nerds here in Charlotte.

I'm currently looking for girls to hang out with, especially for romantic purposes, but not necessarily.

If you like Gamersjd.

If you like ME! XD