I happily live alone, have a job I enjoy greatly, support myself nicely, have no debt, love my dog dearly, am very close with my parents, have a small handful of true friends, sing in a rock band, am honest to a fault, and am generally a homebody. I don’t climb Mt. Everest or hike the Appalachian Trail or kayak the Shenandoah River. I do like the outdoors, but I am not an outdoorsy person. I enjoy weather that’s not sweltering and not freezing. I don’t do extremes well. Fall is my favorite season; Halloween my favorite holiday. I love the water and being in, on, or near it. I love dogs and am a former pet sitting/training business owner. I love singing and do it well. I enjoy movies but usually watch them at home. I enjoy cooking but don’t do it much for just myself. I am pretty easy going and hate drama. I’m not a high-maintenance woman. I enjoy my own time and don’t feel the need to constantly be with the person you have a relationship, as I feel it is good for the relationship to have some space. I have no children and I have no contact with either of my ex-husbands (yes, either – that means I’ve been married twice). I say what I think and what I feel and you will rarely have to guess what’s going on in my head. I am very sure of the person I am and where I am in life. I’m also quite happy with both. I have my own thoughts, opinions, feelings and I am very independent. I’ve not had the easiest life and it has taught me how to be very strong and resilient and how to take care of myself. I think life is not the hand you’re dealt, but how you play it.
I don’t think there is a perfect person out there, just a perfect person for me. I don’t care what you do for a living, what your income is, what you drive or where you live, it’d just be nice for you to have a license, a vehicle of some sort, a roof over your head and a steady job that enables you to pay your bills and take care of yourself. These are the basics that I think most people expect to find in the person they seek. I don’t care how tall you are, your weight, how much hair is on your head or what color your eyes are but it’d be nice if you were somewhat healthy and it is important that you represent yourself honestly because if we do meet, the truth will come out so why people post pictures from 10 years ago or other such insane shit is beyond my comprehension. I am really just looking for someone that I connect with and who gets me. When that happens, you know from the beginning and it just works. I do enjoy men who are of a more dominant nature. I don’t care much for the wishy-washy-can’t-make-up-their-mind sort. The needy-clingy-leachy type is too much for me to deal with, as are the extremely jealous. I don’t care what you’ve done in your past (murder is probably not a good thing), who you’ve dated, how many times you’ve been married, etc. It’s your past and it has helped make you the person you are today and that is the person I want to get to know. We’ve all done things we may not be proud of. We’ve all made mistakes. No one is that special to have gone through life without doing so. The trick is to have no regrets.
Okay, this was long enough. If you would like to know any more, by all means, drop me a line.
One last thing, and although I know I am wasting my time here, please do not email me for sex or anything of the like. I am here to meet someone for a real relationship. Not to meet a friend with benefits. Thanks.