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45 F Piscataway, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:14pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Here we go. :)

I happily live alone, have a job I enjoy greatly, support myself nicely, have no debt, love my dog dearly, am very close with my parents, have a small handful of true friends, sing in a rock band, am honest to a fault (with tact), and recently lost 24 pounds (and still going) so I am much more active than I've ever been and I feel great! I'm rough around the edges, I'm not generally a girly girl, and I will most likely give you a run for your money - the faint of heart need not apply. I like the outdoors but I enjoy weather that’s not sweltering (unless I'm in the water, which you can often find me) and not freezing. I don’t do extremes well. Fall is my favorite season; Halloween my favorite holiday. I love the water and being in, on, or near it. I love dogs and am a former pet sitting/training business owner. I love singing and do it well. I enjoy movies but usually watch them at home. I enjoy cooking but don’t do it much for just myself. I am pretty easy going and hate drama. I’m not a high-maintenance woman. I enjoy my own time and don’t feel the need to constantly be with the person you are in a relationship with, as I feel it is good for the relationship to have some space. I have no children and I have no contact with either of my ex-husbands (yes, either – that means I’ve been married twice). I say what I think and what I feel and you will rarely have to guess what’s going on in my head. I am very sure of the person I am and where I am in life. I’m also quite happy with both. I have my own thoughts, opinions, feelings and I am very independent. I’ve not had the easiest life and it has taught me how to be very strong and resilient and how to take care of myself. I think life is not the hand you’re dealt, but how you play it.

I'm just looking for that one person I connect with - the one who gets me. You know it when you find it. I don't have many deal-breakers - if you don't like dogs; have something against the gay/lesbian lifestyle; or are the wishy/washy, needy-clingy-leechy kind of guy - those are three things that would probably be absolute deal breakers.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be as good a person as my dog thinks I am.
Reevaluating priorities.
Being happy.
Continually trying to improve at my job.
I’m really good at
Kissing. But it does take two.
Seeing the other side of the situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and how outgoing I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
You can ask me this.... but here are some random things I like (in no particular order):

Singing, music, Dahlias, drums, photography, the smell of fresh cut grass, big dogs, the beach at dusk, boats, skulls, ping-pong, shooting pool, movies, presents, dining out, my family, making Italian dishes, four-wheeling, Gerbera Daisies, champagne, small towns, cat bellies, Halloween, hats, hot baths, Christmas lights, ghosts, stick shifts, big sweatshirts, pit bulls, green eyes, rainy day naps, baseball hats, paw prints, trying things I've never done, live music, dominance, saying what you feel, quoting stupid movies, not beating around the bush, surprises, long, passionate kisses
The six things I could never do without
1. My dog, Harrison
2. Music
3. A camera
5. Ice
6. My pillow
But not necessarily in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Coming back in my next life as a pampered house cat. No...not really.
How most people I come across get themselves dressed and find their way to work by themselves everyday.

4/17/14 UPDATE : Okay - you're on a dating site and you claim you want to meet someone. I'm not hideous to look at - I'm a pretty good looking woman I'm told. I'm also told I have an attractive body (I'm not a model but I'm not gross). I'm intelligent, have a job, etc, etc... Guys.. TAKE A FREAKING CHANCE! If you keep doing the same thing, going for the same type of woman (or none at all) you're going to keep getting the same results and stay on this site. Take a step outside your comfort zone. What is the worst that is going to happen? You'll go out for a drink and have some great conversation with someone you didn't have a connection with? Horrors.
On a typical Friday night I am
Not singing with my band right now - taking a break - enjoying friends or family. Maybe happy hour with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was a man in a prior life. How's THAT grab ya'?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have something to say (not just "hi").... and you are willing to take a chance and actually meet - not just email for three weeks.