46 North Plainfield, NJ
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My self-summary
I just moved (and I mean just -January 9) to North Plainfield) and unpacking and trying to get settled.

I'm not a serial dater - I want a real relationship with one man. I know who I am, what I want, what I don't, what I'm capable of, and what my short-comings are. I know life is too short to worry and complain about the bullshit and I know that we have to play the hand we're dealt and it's not always a good one. I'm not looking for a FWB situation at this point so please don't waste our time. I enjoy conversation so if you send me a few words as your email, I probably won't answer. If you're interested, don't make me do all the work in the first email. It's not that difficult but "Hey." or "Hey, cutie." will not do it, sorry.

I sing in a band and we are just starting up after a two month break - most gigs are not close to me so it's a lot of driving. I also work a good distance from my home, however, if we connect, I will absolutely meet you! I like a couple emails.... then some texting to see what we have in common, then I like to meet fairly quickly. That's how I operate. I'm not a huge phone person - unless it's while I'm driving home from work.

Anyway.... that's enough. This seems very sterile and that's FAR from who I am as a person... reach out to me if you want to get to know me.
What I’m doing with my life
Reevaluating priorities.
Working on my band.
Trying to be a kinder, nicer person and just a tad less sarcastic.
I’m really good at
Seeing the other side of the situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and how outgoing I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Random things (in no particular order):

Singing, music, Dahlias, drums, photography, the smell of fresh cut grass, big dogs, the beach at dusk, boats, skulls, ping-pong, shooting pool, movies, presents, dining out, my family, making Italian dishes, four-wheeling, Gerbera Daisies, champagne, small towns, cat bellies, Halloween, hats, hot baths, Christmas lights, ghosts, stick shifts, big sweatshirts, pit bulls, green eyes, rainy day naps, baseball hats, paw prints, trying things I've never done, live music, dominance, saying what you feel, quoting stupid movies, not beating around the bush, surprises, long, passionate kisses, COMMUNICATION
The six things I could never do without
1. The memory of my dog
2. Music
3. A camera
5. Ice
6. My pillow
But not necessarily in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How people hurt others so badly and sleep soundly at night.
How most people I come across get themselves dressed and find their way to work by themselves everyday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing a gig, relaxing, out to dinner... what's typical?
You should message me if
You have something to say (not just "hi").... and you are willing to take a chance and actually meet - not just email for three weeks.