I happily live alone, have a job I enjoy greatly, support myself nicely, have no debt, love my dog dearly, am very close with my parents, have a small handful of true friends, sing in a rock band, am honest to a fault (with tact), and recently lost 24 pounds (and still going) so I am much more active than I've ever been and I feel great! I'm rough around the edges, I'm not generally a girly girl, and I will most likely give you a run for your money - the faint of heart need not apply. I like the outdoors but I enjoy weather that’s not sweltering (unless I'm in the water, which you can often find me) and not freezing. I don’t do extremes well. Fall is my favorite season; Halloween my favorite holiday. I love the water and being in, on, or near it. I love dogs and am a former pet sitting/training business owner. I love singing and do it well. I enjoy movies but usually watch them at home. I enjoy cooking but don’t do it much for just myself. I am pretty easy going and hate drama. I’m not a high-maintenance woman. I enjoy my own time and don’t feel the need to constantly be with the person you are in a relationship with, as I feel it is good for the relationship to have some space. I have no children and I have no contact with either of my ex-husbands (yes, either – that means I’ve been married twice). I say what I think and what I feel and you will rarely have to guess what’s going on in my head. I am very sure of the person I am and where I am in life. I’m also quite happy with both. I have my own thoughts, opinions, feelings and I am very independent. I’ve not had the easiest life and it has taught me how to be very strong and resilient and how to take care of myself. I think life is not the hand you’re dealt, but how you play it.
I'm just looking for that one person I connect with - the one who gets me. You know it when you find it. I don't have many deal-breakers - if you don't like dogs; have something against the gay/lesbian lifestyle; or are the wishy/washy, needy-clingy-leechy kind of guy - those are three things that would probably be absolute deal breakers.