names tim im 31 6 foot 1 175lbs single never married no kids Ive lived all over the u.s. but kansas has always been home don't plan on leaving again starting to get to old for that shit. All i want is to be happy and content in life i aint gotta be rich or have a super model for a wife although she does have to be fine to me!!! she must have all her teeth!!!!!!! I usually dont talk much but once i get to know someone and feel comfortable i really open up. I spent eight years with my ex and it was hard to leave her but i cleaned my life up and it was time for me to move on to better things since she didn't feel that I was worth quiting drugs for! I hope to someday have a child but only with the right person!!! i won't just have a child with anyone!! I have problems but so does everyone i don't care what they say aint noone fricken perfect. I was abused sexually as a child which is why i am shy but to me it is a good thing i like the man that i have become just wish that some gal would notice me and get to know me. I can honestly say i have never cheated or laid my hands on a woman in anger!!!!! thats not how i was raised but for some reason i keep finding women that see me as some dude they can take advantage of and walk all over but it don't happen for long cuz i am not afraid to kick to the curb!! if you cant respect that i am soft spokenj or think that because i am a nice guy you can get away with what ever you like you better think twice. i just want to be treated the same as i treat my partner!!! and i love to spoil!!!! i dont mean money wise!!!! i think its the little things that make a good relationship!!! like having a bubble bath ready with candles lit when you get home from work or cooking a romantic dinner for two. i am not better than anyone! and i want my partner to be the same way i just can't stand stuck up people!!! im only starting this profile because i am about to fricken give up on this dating thing maybe someone will find me out and let me know that they are interested remember im shy ive dealt with enought rejection in my life i really don't wish to deal with anymore of it. im a mommas boy but if im in a relationship my momma has no say!!! i just love her and thats it not really close with my father cuz he is a lying bastard my father figure is my granddad i am about out of words right now so if there is absoultly anything that you would like to know just ask and you will get a answer i have nothing to hide

i am currently a sous chef but getting tired of kitchen work looking to switch jobs

wouldn't you like to know!!!!!!!! hint hint this is one thing thats kept secret other than I can cook a meal to die for

my eyes and tatts

stephen king, pantera, mudvane, any metal, and italian food

oxygen, food, everthing else is material wish i could find a good woman that could make me feel i couldnt do without

how fricken lonely i am

at work

I was sexually abused as a child which is why i am shy as hell

your interested of course!!!! remember im shy