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haitianlover

23 / M / straight / Available

Athens, Georgia

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Black
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5' 11" (1.80m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
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No
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Rarely
Drugs
Never
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Christianity
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Education
Graduated from two-year college
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Computer / Hardware / Software
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Likes children
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Languages
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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I am kind, adventuress, and romantic.

My Self-Summary

I live in Athens - the Classic City, party in Atlanta, and enjoy my weekends in the mountains....LOL I work in the IT Field. I enjoy activities ranging from hiking, to playing music, to watching movies. I am one of those few guys who actually enjoys cooking as much as I enjoy going cave-exploring or dirt-biking!! Just don't ask me to bake. I can not bake much to save my life!!

I LOVE music, and play guitar and piano. I listen to Kompa, Soca, Reggae, Soft Rock, and CCM. I also LOVE to dance. I am not the best at it, but I will go out on any floor any day.

Some cool facts about me that you might like to know. In case you have not figured out yet, I am a Haitian-American. However, what you don't know is that I was adopted before I was even 2 years old. I have lived in three countries, 6 States, and I have moved 24 times in my life so far. Let's see what else....I have owned two pet monkeys. I had a squirrel monkey for about 6 months, and a Marmoset for about 2 years. No, they are not as mean as everyone says. They make great pets in my opinion!!

I am not a big sports fan, but I do keep up with the latest and greatest. I would much rather go to a live game then watch it on TV or read about it. However, I will go to a live football or baseball game though. You will have me more interested in a good board game to tell you the truth.

To sum things up, I like to have fun, but I prefer not to have fun by myself. I don't always have to be with someone, but friends and relationships are important to me. You know?

What I’m doing with my life

What I am doing with my life? Well, I am currently an IT Consultant. I design websites and work with computers and all that boring stuff. I also teach guitar and piano lessons for fun. Sometimes, I even play piano for different restaurants and churches in the area. As you can tell, music is my true passion.

My end goal is to perform counseling through massage therapy and work with music through teaching and playing. But I have a ways to go until I get there.

Some other dream jobs....Audio Technician, Heavy Machinery Operator, Massage Therapist, Tour Guide. Although I like computers, notice it is not in that list. I have found that if you know computers, EVERYONE wants you to work on theirs!! LOL

I’m really good at

Talking???? I don't know. I am good at cooking, but horrible at baking!! I am good at piano, but not that good at trumpet. Let's see....O, don't forget the radio!! I am very good at listening to the radio....but I guess you could say that I am good at listening in general. Many of my friends say that they like that I take time to listen and try to understand whether it be a personal problem or a computer problem. I am not bragging, but just sharing something that I have been gifted with as a TCK who has traveled his fair share. (Third Culture Kid)

The first things people usually notice about me

I am compassionate. I often stop for stranded motorist on the side of the road. Yes, that is dangerous I know, but I hope that one day it will pay off and someone will do the same for me. Maybe I should work for AAA.

Another thing I hear the first time people meet me in person is: "You are not white!!" I was adopted when young, and learned English - my second language - with a strong southern accent. So, often when people talk to me on the phone, they expect some white guy with a straw hat to come walking through the door. SURPRISE!!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

MOVIES: Save the Last Dance, Hitch, Lord of the Ring, White Chicks
BOOKS: By Order of the President, TCK - Third Culture Kids
MUSIC: DC Talk, Matisyahu, Misty Jean, Zenglen, Hawk Nelson, Jeremy Camp, Glenn Washington, Beres Hammond, Aqua....Get the point? I like a variety. Don't like much country, and very little classical. NO HEAVY METAL!!
FOOD: Curry, Guyanese Food, Chinese Food, Haystacks, Home-cooked food. I am not real picky, but I don't like potatoes, tuna, or bananas.

The six things I could never do without

My phone, my computer, my friends. It is strange since I grew up over-seas without a phone or a computer, but working in IT, I use this stuff a lot now.

Friends are very important to me as well as they are my support system.

Other things...my car - can't live without it. My sense of humor, I need that too!!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life...I am always thinking, but who knows about what!!

On a typical Friday night I am

Well, I love playing games - board games - with friends on Friday, but many Fridays are spent at the Dollar Theater or at H20. Sometimes, I am playing piano on a Friday.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

You have to ask me that question personally. Otherwise, I will admit that I am human. Does that count????

If you insist, I once announced for a foot ball game, and after the pledge, I said "Let's play ball!!" Ooops, wrong sport.

You should message me if

You should message me if you want to find out more about me, or if you are looking for a really cool person to talk to. Maybe you are a TCK, or maybe you like meeting new people. Maybe you are looking for someone to play guitar with or some board games. Maybe you like hiking or caving. Maybe you just want a friend who will be there and talk to you about any and everything. Whatever it is, you don't know if we will get along till you write. So, I am waiting....