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27 M Providence, RI

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Admittedly I'm writing in a 'me' I hope best attracts a 'you', but limitations of a self written online blurb aside, I'll try not to stray too far away from the truth. Not to mention the whole complicated mess of claiming to know oneself.

As much as possible I try to remind myself that we all share this existence, (humans that is, sorry cows, chickens, pigs, fish, seafood generally, squirrels- if you can catch 'em...) and that I have no idea what is going on, and therefore little right to tell people how to go about experiencing/living it.

With my time I love exploring, listening to music/going to shows, having a good chat, going on long aimless walks, and losing myself in thought at art museums. I am fascinated by the best and worst society has to offer, and terrified by the beige middle. I also love to learn how the universe works, which I'd like to think lies at the heart of why I am currently in graduate school.

I feel most at peace surrounded by nature. I am deeply agnostic, and for the most part entirely non-spiritual. Particularly in the context of that special spiritual intensity found most strongly in sporting arenas. However, something about being surrounded by flora and fauna, all living harmoniously with the old decay begetting new life, puts me at ease and leaves me with an uncluttered mind.

Other than that this OKcupid thing, like all things, is absurd. Shouldn't there be a section where we talk about the kinds of people we're looking for? Is it just that knowing what kind of person you're into is even more difficult than attempting to know yourself?
What I’m doing with my life
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working on a phd in physics. for all those who have left, the academic bubble continues to remain soft and cradley.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
figuring out doors. opening up packaging. keeping most of my house plants alive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Women sense my power and they seek the life essence. I do not avoid women. But I do deny them my essence."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I try to do my best to be opened minded in general, though I've never gotten the country musics nor the metal musics neither.

books: Chronic City, Consider the Lobster, The Hitchikers Guide to the Galaxy, Dune, Nightfall and Other Stories, 1984, Introduction to Quantum Mechanics by David J. Griffiths., Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln, Republic Lost: How Money Corrupts Congress -- and a Plan to Stop It., Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (the one illustrated by Joseph Schindelman, though I do love Quentin Blake as well, and yes i had to look these names up).

music: I very infrequently pay attention to lyrics, but I love beautiful voices. Also I tend to prefer whole albums as opposed to songs, though I'm always ready for the lone salmon dance. One of the first bands that hooked me on music was "The Starlight Mints", and they will forever hold a special place in my heart.
Other than that a random assortment of artists: Dan Deacon, Black Moth Super Rainbow, Beck, The Shins, Radiohead, Kurt Vile, Grizzly Bear, Air (Talkie Walkie and Moon Safari should be on some kind illicit drugs list), Justice, Gorillaz, The Flaming Lips, Mirah, Wu Tang Clan (36 Chambers), Youth Lagoon, Lower Dens, Johnny Cash, Lou Weed, The Dandy Warhols, blah blah blah.
Also Jazz: Henry 'Red' Allen, Django Reinhardt, Dizzy Gillespie, Lee Morgan, Fats Waller, Dave Brubek.
Oh I also really like African music (Golden Afrique Vol. 1, 2, and 3, Afropop from PRI, and such though it's harder to come by).

Movies:Almost Famous. Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aide.
Dr. Strangelove. (quoted above)

TV Shows: Bill friggin Nye, Newton's Apple (Ruckzuck by Kraftwerk as the opening theme song), Beakman's World, Kratt's Creatures, Science Court.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
food, water insofar as it is not food, shelter, something to play music, internet, science. pretty much in that order, although the first two are kind of tied.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, the universe, and everything.

how the aurora borealis works.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends, going to shows, buildin stuff. Sometimes bars, sometimes reading, sometimes sleeping.
You should message me if
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you like going on long aimless walks and have a healthy appreciation of the absurd.

or if you just want to go to some art museums/ concerts.

or you are bored.

or if you know something cool about science and want to share it with me.

or if you know something cool about art and want to share it with me.

or if you feel like it.