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27 M Providence, RI

My Details

Last Online
Aug 12
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Admittedly I'm writing in 'the me' I hope best attracts 'the you' I lust for. Or at least hope to see the occasional show with. That said, I shall do my best to be faithful to the truth to the extent that I, or anyone else, can claim to know themselves.

As much as possible I try to remind myself that we all share existence, humans that is (sorry cows, pigs, chickens, sheep, fish, seafood generally, squirrel, chipmunks - if you can grab 'em, the occassional pheasant, a many assorted insect, and of course that one panda), and that I have no idea what is going on and therefore have very little right to tell people how to go about experiencing/living it.

With my time I love exploring, having a good chat, going on long aimless walks, and losing myself in thought at art museums. I also love to learn about and figure out how the universe works, which is presumably at the heart of why I am currently in graduate school.

I feel most at peace surrounded by nature. I am deeply agnostic, and for the most part entirely non-spiritual. Particularly the special spiritual intensity found most strongly in sports arenas and many man-caves. However, something about being surrounded by the flora and fauna, all living harmoniously with the old decay begetting new life, puts me at ease and leaves me with an uncluttered mind.

Other than that, like everything else, this OKcupid thing is absurd. Also the confidences you carry serve as a mask you wear, to let you explore and create and play with others. Also schpoodle. Stop reading this section. Shouldn't we be talking about the kinds of people we're looking for at some point? Is it actually even harder to know what kind of people you're into than to know yourself? Perhaps we should just evolve as a society into a Brave New World-esque orgy of some sort. I am not sorry about the panda. Thanks for continuing to read anyways.
What I’m doing with my life
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working on a phd in physics. for all those who have left, the academic bubble continues to remain soft and cradley.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
figuring out doors. opening up packaging. interpretting the bible for you. keeping most of my house plants alive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Women sense my power and they seek the life essence. I do not avoid women. But I do deny them my essence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I try to do my best to be opened minded in general, though I've never gotten the country musics nor the metal musics neither.

some books: Chronic City, Consider the Lobster, The Hitchikers Guide to the Galaxy, Dune, Nightfall and Other Stories, 1984, Introduction to Quantum Mechanics by David J. Griffiths., Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln, Republic Lost: How Money Corrupts Congress -- and a Plan to Stop It., Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (the one illustrated by Joseph Schindelman, though I do love Quentin Blake as well, and yes i had to look these names up).

some music: I very infrequently pay attention to lyrics, but I love beautiful voices. Also I tend to prefer whole albums as opposed to songs, though I'm always ready for the lone salmon dance. One of the first bands that hooked me on music was "The Starlight Mints", and they will forever hold a special place in my heart. Other than that a random assortment of artists: Dan Deacon, Black Moth Super Rainbow, Beck, The Shins, Radiohead, Kurt Vile, Grizzly Bear, Air (Talkie Walkie and Moon Safari should be on some kind illicit drugs list), Justice, Gorillaz, The Flaming Lips, Mirah, Wu Tang Clan (36 Chambers), Youth Lagoon, Lower Dens, Johnny Cash, Lou Weed, The Dandy Warhols, blah blah blah. Also jazz: Henry 'Red' Allen, Django Reinhardt, Dizzy Gillespie, Lee Morgan, Fats Waller, Dave Brubek. Oh I also really like African music (Golden Afrique Vol. 1, 2, and 3, Afropop from PRI, and such).

Movies:Almost Famous. Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aide.

TV Shows: Bill friggin Nye.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
food, water insofar as it is not food, shelter, something to play music, internet, science. pretty much in that order, although the first two are kind of tied.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, the universe, and everything.

What if instead of evolving on our own we had co-evolved sentience with another species? Like some kind of plant and bee gaining consciousness at the same time?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going out to bars/shows/etc with friends or buildin stuff. sometimes reading. sometimes sleeping.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you like going on long aimless walks and have a healthy appreciation of the absurd.

or if you just want to go to some art museums/ concerts.

or you are bored.

or if you know something cool about science and want to share it with me.

or if you know something cool about art and want to share it with me.

or if you feel like it. i'm not here to tell you what to do.