44 Brooklyn, NY
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My self-summary
I’m a software developer and a musician. Former lawyer. I write songs, play instruments, am a classical tenor, cook pretty well, dance pretty good.

Will underestimate how long it will take to walk to the place.
Will overestimate how much hot sauce to put on the thing.
Will run near the grass if I can't run on the grass.
Will sing Lenski's Aria in the shower.
Will parallel park a 16' car in a 16' 2" space (or larger).
Will eschew spontaneous pissing contests with other male bipeds.
Will attempt an Indian and Boston accent simultaneously.
Will dabble in vegetarianism and then backslide.
Will tilt the pan to fry the eggs.
Will mirror mirror neurons neurons.

New England roots, Manhattanite for college and law school at Columbia University and Brooklynite thereon after (and forever?) I love NYC to death, but I also think about pine trees a lot.

Just looking for a real woman with spunk, curiosity, "the funny", imagination, empathy, physicality, brains, guts, courage and the like.
What I’m doing with my life
living it to within an inch of its life
I’m really good at
catching things I dropped on the way down or on the first bounce
The first things people usually notice about me
damned if I know
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hard to narrow down, but here are a few: Philip Roth, Bruno Schultz, Tarkovsky, David Lynch, The Replacements, Can, Beach House, Peter Gabriel, Cocteau Twins, Fritz Wunderlich, Joni Mitchell, Arvo Part, Kate Bush, Tom Waits, Schumann song cycles, Wagner operas, Steve Reich, Mahler, Sibelius, Vaughan Williams symphonies, Julia Child, Jacques Pepin. And on, and on....
The six things I could never do without
knife skills
actual friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to make what I hear in my head come out of my speakers
On a typical Friday night I am
at a concert or movie or doing the week’s post mortem with a friend over a hoppy beverage
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
my handwriting is infantile
You should message me if
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