46 Madison, WI
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My self-summary
Love to laugh and have emotional experiences. I appreciate your opinions and ideas even though they are different from mine. You need to live your life to give yourself maximum freedom, security, happiness. I believe disputes should be resolved with compromise, and there is no place for disrespect or drama. Communication is very important.

I think there is no such thing as a regrettable date, I always learn something new, and have formed some close friendships in some cases.

I have two children, ages 11 and 12. I enjoy taking them camping, doing nature walks, and playing all manner of crazy games with them. When I was younger, I rode my bicycle across the country on a whim. I like to exercise on semi regular basis, and try to eat healthy. I do go nuts from time to time with junk food, and I don't regret it.

I like to get to know each other in an informal manner. I would have a good time doing chores, with the right person. I am still open to coffee or anything else, I don't expect to actually do chores on a first meeting. :)

Last year a woman called and asked to borrow a "large pot" for thanksgiving. I didn't know who she was, and I don't know how she had my number. So I brought it right over. I kept thinking how odd the request was, and how odd it was that I was going over there. She invited me to stay and help her cook for her kids, and so I did. We ate together, and it was a great time. She was not at all my type, and you know, it just doesn't matter. Everyone is great, and the opportunity to interact with someone inside their little world, is a privilege and enlightening. Woo hoo.
What I’m doing with my life
working on improving my career and physical health. Trying to improve myself as a father, and a compassionate human being.
I’m really good at
Im a good listener, and very empathic. I can play tennis well, and any other sport. Not the best at golf, but I can manage some.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know. Ask them! Or better yet, make your own original observation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I can do without television. I really think there are far better things to do, but I can enjoy any kind of show, comedy, drama, whatever is popular will be enjoyable for me. I try to eat healthy these days, with lots of vegetables. Our health is a great asset, I want to be relatively healthy. But I can on occasion enjoy a huge pig out on junk food.
The six things I could never do without
I can do without. Nothing is that important, especially when you realize there are people all over the world who have nothing at all. Happiness comes from within, not having things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
God, my role in life. I do not identify with right wingers, but I do like to contemplate the bible, and find truth in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
reading, taking a walk, chatting with friends, playing with my kids.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
nope. I hold no secrets from close friends and lovers. I don't need to tell the general public anything.
You should message me if
Under all circumstances, even if only to criticize me. I'll take it seriously.