I think there is no such thing as a regrettable date, I always learn something new, and have formed some close friendships in some cases.
I have two children, ages 9 and 10. They are absolutely brilliant, perfect, adorable children. I enjoy taking them camping, doing nature walks, and playing all manner of crazy games with them. When I was younger, I rode my bicycle across the country on a whim. I like to exercise on semi regular basis, and try to eat healthy. I do go nuts from time to time with junk food, and I don't regret it.
I like to get to know each other in an informal manner. I would have a good time doing chores, with the right person. I am still open to coffee or anything else, I don't expect to actually do chores on a first meeting. :)
Last year a woman called and asked to borrow a large pot for thanksgiving. I didn't know who she was, and I don't know how she had my number. I brought it right over. She invited me to stay and help her cook, and so I did. It was a great time.
Hope this help you to understand me. Still better, just write me I love to answer questions or flirt a little.