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46 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-48
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:10pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
...and, in summary, I am reluctant to be summarized summarily.
What I’m doing with my life
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Reading cooking playing music checking out NYC!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Crossword puzzles. Sitting my ass down and writing a song. Writing prose--if/when I can get my ass sat down & staying still for any period of time. Recommending a good read.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hands (I'm told), my sense of humor (I've noticed).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Stoner, A Fan's Notes, Hard Rain Falling, Moby Dick, Lolita, Infinite Jest. Anything by the Coen Bros or Roman Polanski or FF Coppola. Arrested D, Portlandia. Blues, Beatles & Wilco. Bob Dylan. Repeat: Bob Dylan. I love good food. I love to eat it. I love to cook it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends, NYRB books, air conditioning, a chance to cook for somebody once in a while, John Lee Hooker.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the comic novel. The state of the folk song. The state of the sonnet. Sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a jam. Out. Maybe just nose-deep in a novel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't figure this one out.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
There are nights you think Sal Paradise was right.