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46 San Francisco, CA Man


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  • Ages 29–45
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:11pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I notice that people like to start their self-summaries with quotes. Here's one from Annie Hall that's always resonated for me:

"There's an old joke. Um, two elderly women are at a Catskill Mountain Resort and one of 'em says 'Boy, the food at this place is really terrible.' The other one says 'Yeah I know, and such small portions."

But I'm much less cynical that Alvy Singer. (I feel like I need to clarify this because I got a message from someone telling me that this was an unhealthy and unattractive world view… but it’s Woody Allen!) In reality, I enjoy life and try to get the most out of it.

The basics:

A lawyer, (sort of the do-gooder kind). I am very ambitious about my career and have been successful in my work life. In the past, this has sometimes been at the expense of my interpersonal relationships, but I’ve become much better at putting boundaries between my work and my social/family life.

A guitar player of middling skill --- my go-to decompression method.

An avid reader, but always at least three New Yorker issues behind.

I am athletic and I value fitness in myself and others. Played a lot of soccer growing up, but now I spend more time in a gym than I do on a pitch. I still spend slightly embarrassing amounts of time following the EPL. These days I'm trying to surf with only limited success.

I was born in England, and spent most of my childhood either there or in Ireland. I’ve been in SF so long that there's little, possibly no, trace of an accent. I'm completely enamored of this City. It was home the first time I washed up here and it has been ever since. I’m a passionate San Franciscan. While I'm continually up for a travel adventure, I'll always return to SF.

Did my undergrad and law school at Berkeley. My B.A. is in history and I'm a bit of geek for it --- there's some part of me that still occasionally wakes up wondering if it's too late to pursue a Ph.D. That said, I'm one of the few lawyers I know that really loves their work.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe that I'm probably a little more interested in clothes than most guys. I spent some time dating a fashion stylist and it sort of rubbed off on me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Dylan, Leonard Cohen, Gram Parsons, the Smiths, Radiohead, a lot of Britpop, Bob Marley, Jamaican ska/dancehall, Cuban jazz, Tom Waits, Woody Allen (even "bad" Woody Allen), anything by the Coen Bros., Wes Anderson, Christopher Guest, Cassavetes, 24-Hour Party People, Mad Men, Boardwalk Empire, Flight of the Concords, David Foster Wallace, The Amises, Nick Hornby, Vonnegut, The New Yorker. Patti Smith's Just Kids totally choked me up. Among the last few things I've read --- and probably fairly representative of what appeals to me --- are George Saunders' Tenth of December, and Erik Larson's In the Garden of Beasts. Currently reading Morrissey's Autobiography, which, so far, I'd say is about one part genius to two parts awful.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I rethink this list every few days. I've decided I want to include book stores; book stores that are tolerant of excessive browsing and which stock used, randomly curated books , even more so. Plus my iPhone, passport, guitar, coffee and burritos.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...some place on Valencia St.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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