Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an African American male of average height and weight for my
age. That's 6 feet and 190 lbs. I like most everything in life that
most people like but I will try to narrow it down to a few. I have
a 23 year old son whom I like to do things with such as camping,
fishing, bike riding, amusement parks, swimming, and most
spectators? sports. Then it?s the adult things such as listening to
music of various types. Mostly R&B (preferably the 60s, 70s and
some 80s, its not that Im living in the past but I just have fond
memories of that period), some pop, lite jazz, and yes classical
when Im in the mood. I like walking through the park on a warm
romantic evening. I even like walking in the rain on a summer day.
I like sipping on wine during intimate conversations. I love long
slow lovemaking that utilizes the whole person (body and mind). I
like just cuddling before and after lovemaking and talking about
life, love and each other. As I majored in music in college I
sometimes play the piano. I feel that I am a very romantic and
passionate man (much more than most men) that has no problem in
expressing my thoughts and my feelings. There are many more things
that tickle my fancy, but I dont want to bore you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still working hard and trying to make a difference. Looking forward
to retiring, although I'm not too sure if that will suit me.
Searching for love outside all the wrong places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people. I am also good at getting in touch with my
feelings. I am good at motivating people and lifting people
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite books are "A Course in Miracles and The Disappearance
of the University". My favorite movie of all time is "Somewhere in
Time" with Christopher Reeves and Jane Seymour. My favorite foods
are "Soul, Italian, Mexian, and anything my mama cooked. My
favorite kinds of music are all kinds with the exception of hip
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about the purpose of my life in this
world and who I fit in with the grand scheme of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
would like to be doing something special with my special lady like
going to a movie, to a concert (R&B or Classical), having
dinner at a fine restuarant and or later dancing. However since I
don't have my special lady I will probably take in a sporting
activity or watching a good movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Many women have had very bad experiences with men and sometimes let
that experience into their new relationship. She becomes cynical
and judgmental even before she has gotten to know the new man in
her relationship. Im looking for someone that wont judge me by what
someone has done in the past. Im looking for someone that will
allow me to make my own mistakes and/or successes and judge me on
the basis of that. I want a woman that pretty much knows what she
wants and is not shy about asking or going after it. She is self
assured, beautiful, passionate and sensitive to me and my need. She
is willing and can incorporate her own needs into mine to blend us
together while at the same time maintaining her own individuality.
Im looking at the heart as it tells the real story of the person
inside. Her physical beauty, although important and does matter but
is of lesser importance than that of her inner beauty. She loves to
play and is spontaneous and don?t mind being a little daring
sometimes. She has a wonderful sense of humor and loves to laugh
not only about life but about herself. Am I being too unrealistic?
I hope not because I know she is out there somewhere. If you feel
that you are the one then write me.
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