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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 18
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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Well hello there...I'm looking for someone who wants to create an inspiring, fun, deep and meaningful relationship. I'm a kind, smart, dynamic guy with a decent sense of humor who loves sharing provocative op-eds, being active outside, planning adventures, cooking meals, and engaging in long lingering conversations - preferably over a beer or scotch - but wine will do as well :)
Like many of you I'm equally comfortable chopping wood in jeans and a flannel as I am attending a swanky gala in heels and a little black dress! Oh. What? Wait. Well. See? That's what I mean by a decent sense of humor. Admit chuckled...just a little.
I love days that include learning, exercise, laughter, nature and affection and want most of my days to include these things.
I'm a fan of traveling and going on adventures near and far. I've spent a decent part of my life overseas and still love the sensation of openness and possibility that comes with finding myself in a new place. As I've gotten older however, I've come to value and seek community, connection and rootedness. I'm interested in knowing neighbors, growing some food, hosting small dinner gatherings and the pleasures of having a routine and some rituals. Maybe you're interested in some of this too...?
It goes without saying...but I'm saying it, deeply felt, hot attraction matters a lot. It's necessary and fun...but also insufficient. Values, as cliche as it sounds, matter more. While the occasional late night out or fancy dinner or hangin' with the in-crowd is fun, I'm more interested in deep friendships, sharing family, and trying to live with more compassion and purpose. And having a great f'ing laugh through it all.
I'm attracted to women who have a unique combination of kindness, humility, confidence and curiosity. I stay quite fit and healthy and am seeking the same.
I'm looking for someone who wants a partnership - who's willing and able to both give and to receive and wants to play an active role in creating our relationship. I'm approaching this with an eye toward the long term - to have an amazing time while building an incredible foundation that will eventually support a family. If I strike a resonant chord I hope you'll let me know. Thanks. Scott
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work on my own as a consultant to non-profits on program strategy and leadership development.
I’m really good at
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asking questions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hm. Eyes maybe. Or bedhead.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Conversations with close friends over beers.
Time exploring, especially beautiful outdoor places.
Meaning...getting heavy here :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New adventures
Whether I'll be able to finish the ironman I signed up for
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for a run or walk.
Grabbing a bite and maybe a beer.
To bed pretty early - not a night owl and love the stillness of mornings.
You should message me if
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You're looking to create and share something great, think we'd get along well and would be excited to learn more.